"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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but guys who make money for girls with bad necks are low quality tho
 
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but guys who make money for girls with bad necks are low quality tho
Then who is high quality?

First of all, my "neck" is fine, just had some metal put in it 14 years back.

Also, any money I spend on sex is a disposable portion of my income.

Girls charge the market rate, and no way I can go lower than that. In fact, not sure would want to. That would be like buying spoiled meat.
 
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Suddenly struck me... I've never even flipped a house yet. Yet I talk all day about this sh1t.

Haha.

Maybe I'm telling them about "potential value" lol.

First one should be finished within 4 days. Hold me to that.
 

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I disagree.

What you people don't realize is that I used to be very socially popular and have a million friends with my phone ringing 100 times/day before I got arrested.

I've been there and done that. Think about it... What kind of "cred" could being in prison for 4 years earn me with other guys if I really cared. I'd rather keep it a secret.
When your phone was ringing off the hook and you were so popular, wasn't that when you were dealing acid or something?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Struck me how OFFENSIVE/inappropriate/rude it is to only want a girl for a hole in her body.
Hmm, maybe some congratulations are in order for gaining some insight and showing some growth. I'm impressed.

Remembering a line from The Mystery Method saying how girls screen out guys who have a "dubious intent." (among other reasons).
There's basically 2 sides of the fence. Which are you on? Do you wish people well or harm?
I've always thought that one of the reasons that "social proof" was important was because it sent the message to the woman that the guy is safe to be with. I don't mean safe like "nice guy" safe, I mean if other women will hang out with him, chances decrease that he's a serial killer or sexual offender of some sort.

going to prison is low quality tho
A lot of guys on this forum have seemed to think that a guy in prison is the ultimate male to some women.
 

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What's your point?
I'm asking you a question . You just stated that you were extremely popular and socially sought after. I remember you mentioned before you were popular when you were dealing. Was this comment t
related to the same period, the one when you were dealing drugs? Or was this social apex at a different time in your life?

It's simply a question.
 

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Don't even act like my,Lambo isn't totally,hot.

I'm gonna get a license,plate that says LAMBO69.
Personally, I'm not turned on by expensive cars. I grew up surrounded by weathe, in a wealthy community. I saw first hand how "things" can definitely be all about smoke and mirrors and absolutely do not determine the quality of the person.

When I see flashy items on a person, expensive cars clothes Etc, my first thought is how much debt do they really have? So immediately I am "on guard" and listening/watching for information about who they really are.

Anyone can have expensive stuffb and still be a total a$$hole
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone can have expensive stuffb and still be a total a$$hole
That's true.....

but a LOT of women LIKE azzholes.... (didn't say "all"...didn't say "you".....said "a LOT")

Or do you disagree?
 

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I went to prison for 4 years.

There's a line between what matters and what doesn't, and "friendships" with other males does not.

Think about standing in front of a judge and hoping he only gives you a few years instead of 25. Think about how serious that is.

Now think about how all of that is just games compared to when I broke my neck when I was younger.

Now think how unimportant your "friends" seem.
I've been in front of a judge facing jail. I've also nearly died before. It certainly makes you question your choices. It made me value my life a lot more, my friends included. It's part of what made me want to have more fun, but fun the way I wanted. It's why I don't get caught up in the seriousness of it all anymore.
 
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I've been in front of a judge facing jail. I've also nearly died before. It certainly makes you question your choices. It made me value my life a lot more, my friends included. It's part of what made me want to have more fun, but fun the way I wanted. It's why I don't get caught up in the seriousness of it all anymore.
Define "nearly died,
 

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but a LOT of women LIKE azzholes.... (didn't say "all"...didn't say "you".....said "a LOT")

Or do you disagree?
There are different kinds of @ssholes. There is the "charming" @sshole type that the community leans toward, and he's not really that bad of a guy at all. He just has a strong personality, a strong frame, goes for what he wants, is playful and teases women, and doesn't supplicate to them. The community has an odd way of labeling people ("nice guys" aren't nice and "jerks" aren't really jerks).

Then there's the real kind of @sshole where he's such a d!ck most people aren't going to tolerate hanging around with him. They're going to remove that kind of negativity from their life.
 

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guys that gone to prison fvcked tons of *****s.. their so low quality tho..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm asking you a question . You just stated that you were extremely popular and socially sought after. I remember you mentioned before you were popular when you were dealing. Was this comment t
related to the same period, the one when you were dealing drugs? Or was this social apex at a different time in your life?

It's simply a question.
Yes that was the same time.

But I also hung out with people sometimes when no drugs were involved.
 
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Anyone can have expensive stuffb and still be a total a$$hole
They can also have a cool Lambo and NOT be an a$$hole.

Or you could look at it this way...

Everybody is an a$$hole sometimes. But if you drive a Lambo, people will associate your attitude with your car even if it's unrelated.
 
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Don't talk about prison to these women. Most want a bad guy, but only one that acts like it. They like fake a$$ bad guys, not real bad guys. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Revealed it once, the woman jetted so fast I think the door is still spinning from a few years ago. Tell them happy, positive fluffy stuff. You know clouds and gumdrops. They seem to like that, not real like and it's unfortunate hardships/mistakes in life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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