Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sisters problem

mikephat

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BetterCallSaul

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Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
Women says lots of dumb sh!t. Proceed and see how it turns out.
 

grayclif

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
 

dude99

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
If her and her sister do not get along the younger one could also use you too piss her older sister off. Family dynamics can be interesting.

Proceed. Enjoy. Who gives a care about an ex you brokeup with 30 years ago. She isn't the focus of your attention anymore.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
It's some but not many. Strangely I had a female heavier than my normal physical prototype grow on me. It's her sweetness and feminity she gives me that growed on me. She doesn't give feminity to most people. She's fair, respectful, earns her **** and for some reason I can pound the $hit outta her.

But I know what you mean. Another personality in her would not make my d1ck hard.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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