"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sisters problem

mikephat

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BetterCallSaul

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Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
Women says lots of dumb sh!t. Proceed and see how it turns out.
 

grayclif

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
 

dude99

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
If her and her sister do not get along the younger one could also use you too piss her older sister off. Family dynamics can be interesting.

Proceed. Enjoy. Who gives a care about an ex you brokeup with 30 years ago. She isn't the focus of your attention anymore.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
It's some but not many. Strangely I had a female heavier than my normal physical prototype grow on me. It's her sweetness and feminity she gives me that growed on me. She doesn't give feminity to most people. She's fair, respectful, earns her **** and for some reason I can pound the $hit outta her.

But I know what you mean. Another personality in her would not make my d1ck hard.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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