"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sisters problem

mikephat

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BetterCallSaul

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Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
Women says lots of dumb sh!t. Proceed and see how it turns out.
 

grayclif

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
 

dude99

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
If her and her sister do not get along the younger one could also use you too piss her older sister off. Family dynamics can be interesting.

Proceed. Enjoy. Who gives a care about an ex you brokeup with 30 years ago. She isn't the focus of your attention anymore.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
It's some but not many. Strangely I had a female heavier than my normal physical prototype grow on me. It's her sweetness and feminity she gives me that growed on me. She doesn't give feminity to most people. She's fair, respectful, earns her **** and for some reason I can pound the $hit outta her.

But I know what you mean. Another personality in her would not make my d1ck hard.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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