"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sisters problem

mikephat

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BetterCallSaul

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Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
Women says lots of dumb sh!t. Proceed and see how it turns out.
 

grayclif

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
 

dude99

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I am 47 and I met a beautiful lady, single, 40yo, smiling, handsome. She laughed and we made a good contact.

But she supposed to be a younger sister of my former girlfriend from 30 years ago when we were teenagers. She (yonger sister) was 10 at the moment.

She remembers me (!) and said to my friends that she likes me but can't do nothing with me because I was a b/f to her sister and it's not morally right.

Should I proceed and pay no attention what she is saying, or just leave it?
If her and her sister do not get along the younger one could also use you too piss her older sister off. Family dynamics can be interesting.

Proceed. Enjoy. Who gives a care about an ex you brokeup with 30 years ago. She isn't the focus of your attention anymore.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I'd visibly smirk about it every time it comes up. Crazy that something that happened 30 tears ago can linger. But she was watching your effect on her sister very closely back then and I guarantee she is intrigued. If I'm you I'd enjoy the experience and see where it goes if she is an HB7 or better. I would never use the word "handsome" to describe a nice looking woman.

I am 46 and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to date women older than 35. They just don't arouse me unless they have a really fit body. These days there aren't too many single fit women of color out there.
It's some but not many. Strangely I had a female heavier than my normal physical prototype grow on me. It's her sweetness and feminity she gives me that growed on me. She doesn't give feminity to most people. She's fair, respectful, earns her **** and for some reason I can pound the $hit outta her.

But I know what you mean. Another personality in her would not make my d1ck hard.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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