"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sister Challenge?

MrWood

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Has anyone been successful in nailing the sister of a LTR/ Married ex?


backstory:

Married a Finnish woman, for the greencard. She was a very small woman, my Johnson couldnt fit, she didnt enjoy oral, and as most Finn women, largely emotionless. Enter the sister...

Day 1 meeting her there were obvious sparks, the then to be wife even commented. One christmas the wife said "look, shes in a skintight dress and no panties"... etc.
Sister description.. 47yo HB10, blonde... the most smokin' "milf" you ever saw.
She is a Dentist and a championship horse rider, and last I heard, married. It seems shes not now!

5 years post my marriage/divorce we have followed each other abit on FB, her liking my posts and me hers etc. So I figure now that I am recently single, I decide to hit her up rather directly...

Mr Wood
Hei Name... thought I would say hello, have a Happy Easter !!
Sister
Hi Mr Wood!! Happy easter for you too hope you are well

Mr Wood
I’m doing great, thanks. Busy with work, travel, etc, need a break! you too it seems ..some ****ing life huh? we should meet up for drinks or whatever (in Spain? lol) Anyway, take care wink emoticon
Sister
Hi Mr Wood yeah I do have a bit busy life line you too seem to have. Sure we can go for a drink and chat sometime!


I i just need to not **** this up and acquire a FB/FWB with her. I am quite sure she wants no part of a LTR with me, but knows all about my sexual escapades from the sister... heh

advice and other tales wanted
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stop using emoticons.
 
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MrWood said:
I just need to not **** this up
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And that's why you'll probably f*ck this up.

Your message to her about grabbing a drink was pretty try hard, mate. Can you afford to lose this one?
 
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good points thank you. Yes it was a bold move and a hard line, she will expect a full date offer this week or likely loose interest in this?
Figure I need to pull the trigger on this asap. I know she went out dancing to a club I nearly landed at this past weekend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrWood said:
good points thank you. Yes it was a bold move and a hard line, she will expect a full date offer this week or likely loose interest in this?
Figure I need to pull the trigger on this asap. I know she went out dancing to a club I nearly landed at this past weekend.
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Ask her out asap. Stop screwing around.
 
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no solid counter... hopeful?

Me:
I decided that I am taking you out Saturday 8pm to Location, how about it?

Her:
Dear Donnie. I am on riding national team training camp between friday and sunday

Me:
Best of luck!

Her:
Tnx! ..just training then.. let's have a drink other time.

Me:
For sure, if not traveling, will give you a shout soon, awesome action pic btw

Her:
YeeeeHaww! is sooo fun!!

Me:
see ya soon, be safe
 
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