"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sister Challenge?

MrWood

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Has anyone been successful in nailing the sister of a LTR/ Married ex?


backstory:

Married a Finnish woman, for the greencard. She was a very small woman, my Johnson couldnt fit, she didnt enjoy oral, and as most Finn women, largely emotionless. Enter the sister...

Day 1 meeting her there were obvious sparks, the then to be wife even commented. One christmas the wife said "look, shes in a skintight dress and no panties"... etc.
Sister description.. 47yo HB10, blonde... the most smokin' "milf" you ever saw.
She is a Dentist and a championship horse rider, and last I heard, married. It seems shes not now!

5 years post my marriage/divorce we have followed each other abit on FB, her liking my posts and me hers etc. So I figure now that I am recently single, I decide to hit her up rather directly...

Mr Wood
Hei Name... thought I would say hello, have a Happy Easter !!
Sister
Hi Mr Wood!! Happy easter for you too hope you are well

Mr Wood
I’m doing great, thanks. Busy with work, travel, etc, need a break! you too it seems ..some ****ing life huh? we should meet up for drinks or whatever (in Spain? lol) Anyway, take care wink emoticon
Sister
Hi Mr Wood yeah I do have a bit busy life line you too seem to have. Sure we can go for a drink and chat sometime!



I i just need to not **** this up and acquire a FB/FWB with her. I am quite sure she wants no part of a LTR with me, but knows all about my sexual escapades from the sister... heh

advice and other tales wanted
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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Stop using emoticons.
 

Yewki

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I just need to not **** this up
And that's why you'll probably f*ck this up.

Your message to her about grabbing a drink was pretty try hard, mate. Can you afford to lose this one?
 

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good points thank you. Yes it was a bold move and a hard line, she will expect a full date offer this week or likely loose interest in this?
Figure I need to pull the trigger on this asap. I know she went out dancing to a club I nearly landed at this past weekend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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good points thank you. Yes it was a bold move and a hard line, she will expect a full date offer this week or likely loose interest in this?
Figure I need to pull the trigger on this asap. I know she went out dancing to a club I nearly landed at this past weekend.
Ask her out asap. Stop screwing around.
 

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no solid counter... hopeful?

Me:
I decided that I am taking you out Saturday 8pm to Location, how about it?

Her:
Dear Donnie. I am on riding national team training camp between friday and sunday

Me:
Best of luck!

Her:
Tnx! ..just training then.. let's have a drink other time.

Me:
For sure, if not traveling, will give you a shout soon, awesome action pic btw

Her:
YeeeeHaww! is sooo fun!!

Me:
see ya soon, be safe
 
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