“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Sings she is cheating?
- Thread starter inzone50
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
2. blows you off
3. guy friends
4. lots of text messages
5. she doesnt trust you
6.not getting along w/ each other
7 condomn in the trash can and you two dont use them
8. female friends telephone numbers in her phone you never heard of ( actually disquised numbers)
..bottom line is, most of the time, we already know when she is or isnt. We just subconcously choose to ignore the facts that lay right in front of our eyes. ..when we start asking this question, its pretty much already happened
or its a Friday and she is done class at 1pm and she asks if you want to hang out much later in the day like 7?
or we supposed to hang out 3 and she forgets she had afternoon class that day so she can only hang out after 5?
what do you guys do when you're together?
i have more of a life than she does...marinetti said:she potentially has a life outside of you. perhaps you should work on being more fun when you hang out with her. then she'll want to hang out with you. it's possible she's getting bored with hanging out.
what do you guys do when you're together?
she is the afc in our relationship.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
QFTDavenJuan said:1. never go out with you
2. blows you off
3. guy friends
4. lots of text messages
5. she doesnt trust you
6.not getting along w/ each other
7 condomn in the trash can and you two dont use them
8. female friends telephone numbers in her phone you never heard of ( actually disquised numbers)
..bottom line is, most of the time, we already know when she is or isnt. We just subconcously choose to ignore the facts that lay right in front of our eyes. ..when we start asking this question, its pretty much already happened
also if she starts insisting on going out alone.
or has a new friend whom she wont let you meet.
starts screening her calls around you.
whispers on the phone when you're around
also, make sure the signs are legit. and that you actually have a reason to suspect her outside of your own insecurity.
insecurity has been known to produce fake signs when she really isnt doing anything.
just keep that in mind.
Oh please. A real cheater got game. She will actually conceal or do the opposite of all those things. Last thing she wants to do is raise suspicion about her covert activities when you aren't there.DavenJuan said:1. never go out with you
2. blows you off
3. guy friends
4. lots of text messages
5. she doesnt trust you
6.not getting along w/ each other
7 condomn in the trash can and you two dont use them
8. female friends telephone numbers in her phone you never heard of ( actually disquised numbers)
I would actually get more suspcicious if she goes out on "Girls' Nights Out" or acts a little extra-nice to you out of the blue. Also, excessive internet use...since it's easy to hide emails, but not phone records.
that tells me nothing really. do you guys have fun when you go out?inzone50 said:i have more of a life than she does...
she is the afc in our relationship.
relationships, in my mind, are seducing the same person over and over again. if you're still handling the relationship the same now as you did when it started, it's possibly getting boring for the both of you. even if she is an afc, she's going to need some excitement in her life. i don't think this flaking is a sign of cheating, but i think it's a sign that something isn't right in the relationship.
try honest talk, but not a serious heavy one. for example, take her to a new restaurant or a cool bar, enjoy the evening, and at some point say "hey, is everything okay? because i feel like something's not quite right between us."
something like that.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Does she normally sing about stuff like that? Does she mention you in the song?
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 11, 2005
- Messages
- 4,476
- Reaction score
- 182
It can either be behaviour change that is bad or better to you than she's ever been.
The most important sign you have to trust though is one that you feel inside that is given to you by your gut instinct.
That inner sense we all have that tells us if something is wrong or something is alright.
Sometimes our logical mind likes to try and override this feeling as silly or it tries to write the feeling off as insecurity.
Basically our logical mind will sabotage our gut instinct feeling that can save us from pain because our logical mind wants to look for verifiable proof of wrongdoing but sometimes wrongdoing if hidden enough can only be felt and that is where your gut instinct comes in.
It gives you a sense of whether a person is lying to you or not or has changed in some way.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Cheaters still have general signs. if she has something to loss and hides what she does from you then she will get a little tense if she thinks you're coming on to her.wayword said:Oh please. A real cheater got game. She will actually conceal or do the opposite of all those things. Last thing she wants to do is raise suspicion about her covert activities when you aren't there.
I would actually get more suspicious if she goes out on "Girls' Nights Out" or acts a little extra-nice to you out of the blue. Also, excessive internet use...since it's easy to hide emails, but not phone records.
lying is not easy. you not only have to convince others that what you say is true, but yourself as well.
a person who's good at it will fool you for a while, but they will slip up, and thats when you catch them.
MooseGod
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 12, 2007
- Messages
- 785
- Reaction score
- 11
You took the words right out of my mouth....er...keyboard. :crackup:Jukeboxhero said:Well, I would say that if she sings that she's cheating, it could be a possibilty.
Does she normally sing about stuff like that? Does she mention you in the song?
Last Man Standing
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 18, 2006
- Messages
- 3,956
- Reaction score
- 37
The most obvious s when ten dudes are lined up outside her bedroom with their pants down!inzone50 said:What are signs she is cheating?