Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Single most insane thing I've ever seen regarding dating advice
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Matt Rogers
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lol, it would be even funnier if instead you used a snake as a puppet with one eye.
But yeah, I think a new rule should be never listen to the advice of someone with a moustache who looks like Swiss Toni (British fast show reference).
But yeah, I think a new rule should be never listen to the advice of someone with a moustache who looks like Swiss Toni (British fast show reference).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Blue Phoenix
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On the net everybody claim to be the expert, the master, the "Americas #1 Singles Expert". There're a lot of people on this just for the money.
No wonder some people don't give this forum a credit. They think this is as "fake" as those we find on the net (like that "Don Diebel").
Desdinova
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getgirls.com is the first site I went to when I was looking for answers. Some of Don Diebel's stuff is good (and I believe he used to post here), but some of it is crap. I've read this tip before and I'm not going to completely put it down because I've never tried it. Another one of his gimmicks was to wear a candy necklace and have a woman take a bite.
Don Diebel recommends a lot of gimmicks such as palm reading, tarot card reading, but he does have some tips that go along the lines of what's learned here
Don Diebel recommends a lot of gimmicks such as palm reading, tarot card reading, but he does have some tips that go along the lines of what's learned here
"When you see a girl that you're attracted to, approach her and tap her on the shoulder lightly with your puppet and when she turns around raise your hand puppet towards her face and say something like this with your puppet, "Hi beautiful, would you like to dance with me?" Move your puppet up and down with your hand as you are saying your script just as if the puppet was really talking. And be sure to talk in a real silly voice."
hahahahahaha. That IS hilarious. It will work great up until the woman wonders why the hell you carry a hand puppet to nightclubs.
hahahahahaha. That IS hilarious. It will work great up until the woman wonders why the hell you carry a hand puppet to nightclubs.
Player_Supreme
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This does go down as the lamest technique EVER tried!!!
It's amazing how fools and I mean fools will use any kind of prop to get out from stepping out as a man and just being a person when it comes to meeting women.
So many put such a great fear on this whole dating process that it's amazing that there are any kids being born anymore.
It's amazing how fools and I mean fools will use any kind of prop to get out from stepping out as a man and just being a person when it comes to meeting women.
So many put such a great fear on this whole dating process that it's amazing that there are any kids being born anymore.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Right...
Ok, i can see the "you are a little silly, may be funny" but women dont go to clubs to pick up hand puppets...
Imagine this.. this guy is dancing with a woman, and as he is dancing, the puppet mutters "Oh, you got such a nice ass!" , "Oh baby, im horny" .... yeah, bring that puppet to bed too...
Read his Valentine gifts list....
Top Ten Gifts to Give Single Women on Valentine
Gift certificate for a manicure or pedicure.
• Find out her favorite color of roses and surprise her with a bouquet of roses.
• All women love chocolate, so a box of Godiva chocolates would be an excellent gift.
• Starbucks gift certificate.
And... for some odd reason:
Women love to take bubble baths. Buy her some bubble bath. Hopefully, you can join her in the tub to soak in the bubbles, if you know what I mean.
• Abercrombie & Fitch T-Shirt or Sweatshirt.
what the fukk are those two doing toghether?
b's nuts
Master Don Juan
jesus.
I'm sure that if the puppet is made out of human hair, it will cause interest on her part. I mean, think about it, you are a woman, you feel a tap on your shoulder, turn around, and there you have, a hand puppet made out of hair. That will intrigue her. She will die laughing because you're funny, and she will find you to be a very intelectual person. Pure gold.
Gangster Of Love
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Actually, it is definintely not the lamest advice. You want some delusional comedy, check out that Wayne Ross character. The puppet, as any other prop, will work great if you already have your $hit together as a man. If used only as a crutch because you got nothing going, the chicks will see through it and know you are just scared to be a man.
While I would never use a puppet for that purpose, I do know that if f you have your act together, you can pretty much do whatever you want, on your terms, even if considered lame by others, and get a way with it. That is the level you want to reach, when you do things because you want to, and not care what others think.
While I would never use a puppet for that purpose, I do know that if f you have your act together, you can pretty much do whatever you want, on your terms, even if considered lame by others, and get a way with it. That is the level you want to reach, when you do things because you want to, and not care what others think.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Thats really creepy... I mean, damn.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Frank Zappa
Senior Don Juan
amen.