That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's alright in theory but the question is how often they can get away for a tryst. You'll more than likely need to adjust your schedule to meet hers.muscleman said:I know it's advised getting with single moms for obvious reasons, but what are your thoughts on a casual sex with one as long as she knows it's nothing more? Or is that still an unnecessary complication?
There's a lot of guys in the forum who seem to believe that any type of sexual contact you have with a woman binds you to her like some type of horny lap dog. If you just want to play hit and run I say go right ahead. The thing with single mothers though is their limited amount of availability which effect spontaneity. Do you think you'd ever be able to call her on a random night for a quick booty call?muscleman said:So I read some of the other material here and I'm only looking at this from the perspective of gettin some. No dating ever. Just some casual sex once, maybe twice. I would be completely up front about it and if it's a go it's a go, if not forget it.
Maybe I should just give it a rest it seems complicated already and I haven't even done anything.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Francisco d'Anconia said:There's a lot of guys in the forum who seem to believe that any type of sexual contact you have with a woman binds you to her like some type of horny lap dog...
See, told 'ya. It's not that what DevanE said wasn't necessarily true but you had said that all you wanted to do is bed them without getting into a relationship and he's talking about raising some other man's offspring.DevanE said:...You don't EVER want to get in a relationship with a single-mother because frankly you DON'T need to raise another man's child it's his job. You also have to remember to keep ALL contact AWAY from the child, pretty much you don't exist to this child because once he/she sees you a couple of times "leaving" in & out of their mother's room he/she will begin to associate you as taking a role and begin to develop behaviors associated with the parent so you'd rather NOT get in a situation like this to begin with and develop that false sense of security in that child nor would you let a child THINK that it's ok for there mother to be with a man they don't really know. You get what I'm saying...?
Yeah but muscleman straight away said casual sex and nothing more without getting with them for obvious reasons and the first thing you bring up is relationships with them. C'mon, it's pretty funny, isn't it?DevanE said:Cisco I don't really follow what your saying...? because I DID mention about his certain situation as well. ...