"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Single mommy has philosophical insight: "The only reason men date women is to have sex"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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0:08-0:09 Therein lies the importance of separating your thoughts from your emotions, honeybun
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We all experience a wide array of emotions about s-ittons of events each day. On their own, such things are meaningless
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Ironically the women who tell guys they aren't interested in hookups or having sex early on are the ones whoa rr the easiest because it's done as a defensive mechanism to try and scare away guys who only want that because they know they can't control themselves.
Similar to a fat person not being able to control themselves around cookies or chips or cake or ice cream or pizza. They tell people they aren't eating any of that so don't bring it over. But yet if the person brings it over they end up binge eating it.
Same concept. The mind is strong but the body is weak...that tingling sensation overrides their logical thought process in the moment.
Then once it happens they are like "Oh well...it already happened so I guess it's OK to keep doing it".
If I had a dollar for every women who told me they weren't interested in having sex early on that I banged within 3 dates I'd have grocery money for a week.
