"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Single mommy has philosophical insight: "The only reason men date women is to have sex"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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0:08-0:09 Therein lies the importance of separating your thoughts from your emotions, honeybun
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We all experience a wide array of emotions about s-ittons of events each day. On their own, such things are meaningless
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Ironically the women who tell guys they aren't interested in hookups or having sex early on are the ones whoa rr the easiest because it's done as a defensive mechanism to try and scare away guys who only want that because they know they can't control themselves.
Similar to a fat person not being able to control themselves around cookies or chips or cake or ice cream or pizza. They tell people they aren't eating any of that so don't bring it over. But yet if the person brings it over they end up binge eating it.
Same concept. The mind is strong but the body is weak...that tingling sensation overrides their logical thought process in the moment.
Then once it happens they are like "Oh well...it already happened so I guess it's OK to keep doing it".
If I had a dollar for every women who told me they weren't interested in having sex early on that I banged within 3 dates I'd have grocery money for a week.
