"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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single mommy: "Baby daddy is also part of the package deal"

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my opinion: She's basically saying that you will be completely cucked from the very start. :down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my opinion: She's basically saying that you will be completely cucked from the very start. :down:
With polyamory becoming more and more fashionable, a growing number of single mums and their respective baby daddies are almost certainly open to living as a throuple, something that was largely unheard of in mainstream culture even a decade ago

Life is often much sweeter than our knee-jerk reactions to external events dictate
 

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Hi SW15,
In this Country after two years seeing her regularly,the Family Court could land you with Child Support payments until Kids are 16.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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who date single moms
What do you think "dating" means? You're not buying her or her son "candies" but you're actually estabilishing a rapport?
I mean you don't want to be the sugar daddy and that's your first on your list of boundaries
 

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What do you think "dating" means? You're not buying her or her son "candies" but you're actually estabilishing a rapport?
Raising another man's child can involve financial purchases. It can also involve time spent with another man's son or daughter.

Both are not good.
 

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thats some BS right there
Hi Traveller,
There are even worse situations...A notorious example was of a Married Man who for some years,used to visit a Brisbane prostitute on a weekly basis...When he decided to stop this,she took him to Family Court,claiming a relationship existed between them...The Judge found in her favour (What Else) and he had to continue paying her for no service.
 
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