"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
single mommy: "Baby daddy is also part of the package deal"
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BaronOfHair
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With polyamory becoming more and more fashionable, a growing number of single mums and their respective baby daddies are almost certainly open to living as a throuple, something that was largely unheard of in mainstream culture even a decade ago
my opinion: She's basically saying that you will be completely cucked from the very start.
Life is often much sweeter than our knee-jerk reactions to external events dictate
Manofrefinedtastes
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SW15
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Childless men who date single moms are cucks. Raising another man's child is very cucked behavior.my opinion: She's basically saying that you will be completely cucked from the very start.
Scaramouche
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In this Country after two years seeing her regularly,the Family Court could land you with Child Support payments until Kids are 16.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Travel memoir21
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thats some BS right there
jhonny9546
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What do you think "dating" means? You're not buying her or her son "candies" but you're actually estabilishing a rapport?
I mean you don't want to be the sugar daddy and that's your first on your list of boundaries
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Raising another man's child can involve financial purchases. It can also involve time spent with another man's son or daughter.
Both are not good.
Scaramouche
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Hi Traveller,
There are even worse situations...A notorious example was of a Married Man who for some years,used to visit a Brisbane prostitute on a weekly basis...When he decided to stop this,she took him to Family Court,claiming a relationship existed between them...The Judge found in her favour (What Else) and he had to continue paying her for no service.