"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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single mommy: "Baby daddy is also part of the package deal"

MatureDJ

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my opinion: She's basically saying that you will be completely cucked from the very start. :down:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my opinion: She's basically saying that you will be completely cucked from the very start. :down:
With polyamory becoming more and more fashionable, a growing number of single mums and their respective baby daddies are almost certainly open to living as a throuple, something that was largely unheard of in mainstream culture even a decade ago

Life is often much sweeter than our knee-jerk reactions to external events dictate
 

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Hi SW15,
In this Country after two years seeing her regularly,the Family Court could land you with Child Support payments until Kids are 16.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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who date single moms
What do you think "dating" means? You're not buying her or her son "candies" but you're actually estabilishing a rapport?
I mean you don't want to be the sugar daddy and that's your first on your list of boundaries
 

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What do you think "dating" means? You're not buying her or her son "candies" but you're actually estabilishing a rapport?
Raising another man's child can involve financial purchases. It can also involve time spent with another man's son or daughter.

Both are not good.
 

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thats some BS right there
Hi Traveller,
There are even worse situations...A notorious example was of a Married Man who for some years,used to visit a Brisbane prostitute on a weekly basis...When he decided to stop this,she took him to Family Court,claiming a relationship existed between them...The Judge found in her favour (What Else) and he had to continue paying her for no service.
 
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