greatsnake
Master Don Juan
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What's so bad about being in relationships with them?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This particular single mom got knocked up a night she got drunk with her man at the time. The chick tells him that she's pregnant, he says to abort and she comes to America as a result of this issueI think people generalize a lot about that subject, but there is a point. If you go for a single mom then be sure to figure out why she's a single mom. Was it her or was the father really a piece of sh!t. They're single moms for a reason, be sure you know the truth about why or you risk walking into a trap.
Sounds irresponsible on both parts. Proceed with caution.This particular single mom got knocked up a night she got drunk with her man at the time. The chick tells him that she's pregnant, he says to abort and she comes to America as a result of this issue
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What's so bad about being in relationships with them?
Not an argument.Was it her or was the father really a piece of sh!t. They're single moms for a reason, be sure you know the truth about why or you risk walking into a trap.
Maybe she's trying to become a pick up artist.She is going for her Masters in psychology ... Is she ****ed up in the head?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You don't have much experience with deception, right?Women (not men) are gatekeeper of sex.
She chose him. She either picked a piece of **** or was a **** chasing him away.
Quoting pure Feminine Imperative bvllshiz. You might want to spend some time over at Rollo’s blog.Single parents happen, its largely unavoidable. It's also a problem created by men more often than women. To suggest that a woman stay with a man when he cheats, turns into an abusive alcoholic, or any of the other numerous reasons for divorce, is just well... simple-minded.
There are many many reasons women end up as single moms, and many of them are due to deadbeat dads not taking responsibility with their seed. The responsibility falls on both the man and the woman because it takes two to tango. To suggest that it is solely a womans problem is very narrow-minded.
Life changes people, adversity to difficult situations changes people as well. This is impossible to determine at the outset of a relationship.
For single moms, look at their situation. Why are they a single mom? How is the relationship with the ex? Does she have her $hit together? Money, job, home, etc.
I believe there is additional risk dating single moms, but you can mitigate that risk by vetting properly, as you should with every woman.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Stephan molyneux is a stay at home dad? Wow! Talk about following the feminine imperative.
Long but well documented and sourced podcast.
Children of single mom households are at much higher risk for teen pregnancy, std, poor socioeconomic status, lower education, higher risk for jail and legal troubles.
Despite the proud single mom promo, tyr truth is listed on the podcast.
So, Chad's get her pregnant, and cuck raises some other man's baby.
Said woman now needs resource's so, beta male cuck provider allocated resource's to a irresponsible woman who A) picked the wrong man or B) Drove his ass nuts to be the point he left regardless of unleashing the dogs of the state to extract male resource's.
Single moms are the worst. She ruins the child's life. She has poor choice in men.
We the tax payer foot the bill.
One of the woman I used to dated is really a nice woman, teacher, single mother with two lovely teenagers.(both top in their classes )Because who a woman decides to father her children is probably the most important decision she'll ever make. And she's given every opportunity and advantage to make that decision properly.
Fvcking it up shows amazingly poor judgement. It's a most obvious reflection of piss poor character. Hence, the stereotype.
Men r basically a simple animal.One of the woman I used to dated is really a nice woman, teacher, single mother with two lovely teenagers.(both top in their classes )
When I asked her what happened to her marriage , she said her EX husband diagnosed with BPD, so I asked her why she got married with him in the first place, to which she said he was perfectly fine in the first 9 years, and out of nowhere due to his working stress, he become depressed and angry and diagnosed with BPD, which she didn't knew about, all those years.
So, I don't think it always woman fault.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.