greatsnake
Master Don Juan
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What's so bad about being in relationships with them?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This particular single mom got knocked up a night she got drunk with her man at the time. The chick tells him that she's pregnant, he says to abort and she comes to America as a result of this issueI think people generalize a lot about that subject, but there is a point. If you go for a single mom then be sure to figure out why she's a single mom. Was it her or was the father really a piece of sh!t. They're single moms for a reason, be sure you know the truth about why or you risk walking into a trap.
Sounds irresponsible on both parts. Proceed with caution.This particular single mom got knocked up a night she got drunk with her man at the time. The chick tells him that she's pregnant, he says to abort and she comes to America as a result of this issue
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What's so bad about being in relationships with them?
Not an argument.Was it her or was the father really a piece of sh!t. They're single moms for a reason, be sure you know the truth about why or you risk walking into a trap.
Maybe she's trying to become a pick up artist.She is going for her Masters in psychology ... Is she ****ed up in the head?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You don't have much experience with deception, right?Women (not men) are gatekeeper of sex.
She chose him. She either picked a piece of **** or was a **** chasing him away.
Quoting pure Feminine Imperative bvllshiz. You might want to spend some time over at Rollo’s blog.Single parents happen, its largely unavoidable. It's also a problem created by men more often than women. To suggest that a woman stay with a man when he cheats, turns into an abusive alcoholic, or any of the other numerous reasons for divorce, is just well... simple-minded.
There are many many reasons women end up as single moms, and many of them are due to deadbeat dads not taking responsibility with their seed. The responsibility falls on both the man and the woman because it takes two to tango. To suggest that it is solely a womans problem is very narrow-minded.
Life changes people, adversity to difficult situations changes people as well. This is impossible to determine at the outset of a relationship.
For single moms, look at their situation. Why are they a single mom? How is the relationship with the ex? Does she have her $hit together? Money, job, home, etc.
I believe there is additional risk dating single moms, but you can mitigate that risk by vetting properly, as you should with every woman.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stephan molyneux is a stay at home dad? Wow! Talk about following the feminine imperative.
Long but well documented and sourced podcast.
Children of single mom households are at much higher risk for teen pregnancy, std, poor socioeconomic status, lower education, higher risk for jail and legal troubles.
Despite the proud single mom promo, tyr truth is listed on the podcast.
So, Chad's get her pregnant, and cuck raises some other man's baby.
Said woman now needs resource's so, beta male cuck provider allocated resource's to a irresponsible woman who A) picked the wrong man or B) Drove his ass nuts to be the point he left regardless of unleashing the dogs of the state to extract male resource's.
Single moms are the worst. She ruins the child's life. She has poor choice in men.
We the tax payer foot the bill.
One of the woman I used to dated is really a nice woman, teacher, single mother with two lovely teenagers.(both top in their classes )Because who a woman decides to father her children is probably the most important decision she'll ever make. And she's given every opportunity and advantage to make that decision properly.
Fvcking it up shows amazingly poor judgement. It's a most obvious reflection of piss poor character. Hence, the stereotype.
Men r basically a simple animal.One of the woman I used to dated is really a nice woman, teacher, single mother with two lovely teenagers.(both top in their classes )
When I asked her what happened to her marriage , she said her EX husband diagnosed with BPD, so I asked her why she got married with him in the first place, to which she said he was perfectly fine in the first 9 years, and out of nowhere due to his working stress, he become depressed and angry and diagnosed with BPD, which she didn't knew about, all those years.
So, I don't think it always woman fault.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.