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Single alpha Male in 30s is the holy grail

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This is typical projection of men views on women

Women are not as visual as guys are
Yeah, agreed. They process attraction in an almost completely different way than we do. But attraction is what they want.

Man find the most fertile, best nurturer most attractive. Women find the strongest man most attractive. But that's what they find hot. So the hottest men are at the top.
 

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Of course women care about looks. Anyone who says they don’t is delusional. Looks maxing, confidence maxing and status/money maxing are the best way to get higher caliber women.
Women are just as, if not more visual than men. Hit the gym asap.
 

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yep.
I’m that guy that bloomed late, I’m talking from experience. i experience a level of abundance that no 20 year old could come close to. Models on instagram etc know their worth they don’t gaf about your game and theories. They gonna date a top teir DJ or athlete or doctor before a PUA. Status money lifestyle and looks trumps everything. I cold approach a girl, then add on instagram - she sees my holidays, restaurants I go to, designer clothes, condo, gym pics etc we will be f’king in a couple weeks! News flash this what turns women on - social dominance ! Leagues are very real! Hot women are top of the social heriachy they are gonna date men at their level and not compromise their social status being seen with a random normie or homeless man - do you know how much hot women care about their status!!!
And I don’t even pay for dates, we go halves on cheap ass drinks! They just wanna be fking with a winner top dog type dude, it gets them horny!
Hot women feel ENTITLED to hot, rich, succesful men. This is BIOLOGY.
This is why I laugh at Incels who feel entitled to get a hot model chick, why would she pick some broke dusty who lives at his momma house talking black pill nonsense when she can Pick Tyrone or Chad living in a penthouse in the city and he's balling?

This guy has a small vlog but he's been dating top-tier women for years i.e. verified models, he dated the top model in Germany at one point etc.
skip to the 8:43 for "Stacy" heh
 
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They want me cause I’m hot and rich. I have way more pull than a 20 year old girl, because I can replace her in a week but she can’t find another guy like me easily.
you can learn. Because 5 years ago I wasn’t ‘that guy’,and I used to obssess about game and theory etc. then I worked hard, accomplished what I needed and I noticed the tables turning. The hot 20 year old girls I used to image were to out of reach, were now treating me like a king figure and were asking me out?
Women are just like men, they just have higher standards.
self improve aggressively and you will outshine all the other men who don’t know this
OP's reality is different and he's unlocked Chad-Tier mode
 

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whilst in theory its true the reality is a guy in his 30's won't really get the opportunity to be around the volume of women in their 20's

The gym and bars are probably the only two reliable places this can be done

im 31 and Ive done a lot of gym approaches with women in their 20's this year , I got very close to dating a HB 8 23 Y/O but fumbled the bag at the last min , few sniffs of interest from some 20 year olds but not much in the way of sex has materialised

I pulled a 26 y/o in a bar that went on for a little bit but ultimately wasnt that bothered about her

Pulled a 27 Y/O in a music festival but it was just a ONS she wasn't the best looking maybe a 6 but her Pu$$y was very good

other than that its been slim pickings and I can't really see a way I can increase the flow of this pipeline unless I go travelling / am on constant holidays

Day to day life for a man his 30's just doesn't provide enough access to young 20 year old poon
 

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whilst in theory its true the reality is a guy in his 30's won't really get the opportunity to be around the volume of women in their 20's

The gym and bars are probably the only two reliable places this can be done

im 31 and Ive done a lot of gym approaches with women in their 20's this year , I got very close to dating a HB 8 23 Y/O but fumbled the bag at the last min , few sniffs of interest from some 20 year olds but not much in the way of sex has materialised

I pulled a 26 y/o in a bar that went on for a little bit but ultimately wasnt that bothered about her

Pulled a 27 Y/O in a music festival but it was just a ONS she wasn't the best looking maybe a 6 but her Pu$$y was very good

other than that its been slim pickings and I can't really see a way I can increase the flow of this pipeline unless I go travelling / am on constant holidays

Day to day life for a man his 30's just doesn't provide enough access to young 20 year old poon
You have to learn where to go

There are plenty of places where young and hot girls go

Also, if for some reason you do not have the energy to go to the places that young people go… try to go to events

In most countries the events are full with women

Try to not really just go to a club or something along these lines. They are usually dead ends these days

Instead try to focus on the 6-10 pm hour in cafes/bars, way more girls then than during the night ( and of better quality )

Also I never did gym approaches, never really saw hot girls there. But I only go once or maximum twice a week to one and usually go late ( I do not like it all when it is packed, mainly because most people there I find disgusting )

If you do not go to the right places at the right time, then you will have to rely on luck
 
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You have to learn where to go

There are plenty of places where young and hot girls go

Also, if for some reason you do not have the energy to go to the places that young people go… try to go to events

In most countries the events are full with women

Try to not really just go to a club or something along these lines. They are usually dead ends these days

Instead try to focus on the 6-10 pm hour in cafes/bars, way more girls then than during the night ( and of better quality )
Agree events are a goldmine especially festivals

Same with holidays girls just seem way more open to being approached and chatted up , I was in. Spain a few weeks ago and was chatting up a 19 year old she was DTF too but the mate c0ckblocked

Hardly ever go to clubs anymore they are awful

Like the bar between 6-10 and early afternoon if I can be bothered to go out
 

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Like the bar between 6-10 and early afternoon if I can be bothered to go out
If you want better results, you have to put more effort where it makes the most sense. Such is life :)

Contrary to common belief, most girls do not have either a great social life once they leave uni. They mainly stay on instagram and some on tinder to get the validation, guys do not have this “liberty”
 

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Meeting hot women in your 30s is just the same as meeting hot women in your 20s. You people act like 20 year old male are just surrounded by hot women LOL get real. If that was the case so many 20 year old guys wouldn’t be struggling to get dates and using dating apps hoping to meet a girl.
Meeting girls is about going to clubs, cold approaching in public and instagram. As a 30 year old, it’s easier than ever because now I have money and look better
 

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Meeting hot women in your 30s is just the same as meeting hot women in your 20s. You people act like 20 year old male are just surrounded by hot women LOL get real. If that was the case so many 20 year old guys wouldn’t be struggling to get dates and using dating apps hoping to meet a girl.
Meeting girls is about going to clubs, cold approaching in public and instagram. As a 30 year old, it’s easier than ever because now I have money and look better
Dunno bro, you have some good posts and then you go exaggerating

For example, Clubs after the pandemic are not that great anymore, mainly because of the unbalanced ratios. Way more guys than girls. And the guys are thirsty as hell which will make whatever girls are there to go into a non social state and way more guarded

Plus, being surrounded by hordes of drunk guys that you do not know puts you in a state of fight, and you are not relaxed enough to work with whatever is given to you in that far from ideal context

Night life really changed for the worst, at least in Europe
 

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The typical 30+ single male is not experiencing abundance or a good time.

For all males 30+ (alpha, sigma, beta, omega) who are not attached or marginally attached, life can get pretty lonely. Social circles don't tend to like unattached/marginally attached males. Social circles also tend to get centered around kids. Married men are also notorious for cutting off friendships with unattached and/or seducer type guys.
 

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As a 30 year old, it’s easier than ever because now I have money and look better
Agree about it being easier now than before because my looks have improved (trendy hairstyle+trendy style+tats). To the point where these young girls want to show off they are with me by introducing me to all their friends. But I also say I have a different vibe than my competition. Because although I may look their age, my presence/behavior is something these young guys lack, which comes from lots of experience.
 

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Sir Galahad was about that age, and he got close to the Holy Grail.

 

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The interesting thing I heard from an evolutionary psychologist was that it's not that you have money, it's how it changes the way you act, when you have money.
This, if i had 10 milly in the bank i'd cold approach any woman on planet earth with zero ****s given about rejection . Ain't no confidence booster like money.
 

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I agree with some of OP's posts but OP's overall vibe tells me that most of what he says is BS. Again, common sense and experience.
Curb your jealousy, I been posting here for a while. A bull****t3r wouldn’t be able to withstand so much pushback with such in detail responses
 

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The typical 30+ single male is not experiencing abundance or a good time.

For all males 30+ (alpha, sigma, beta, omega) who are not attached or marginally attached, life can get pretty lonely. Social circles don't tend to like unattached/marginally attached males. Social circles also tend to get centered around kids. Married men are also notorious for cutting off friendships with unattached and/or seducer type guys.
This the pivotal point to the post.

Yes, men in their 30s are much more attractive to women. This will also be the case if we lived in a 'socialist' state where say, evreyone had the same money for instance. Other differentiating factors such as social status, confidence, knowledge, life skills etc would then be the dtereming factor.

Men should remember that it is definitely not money per se that attracts women, but money, liek with other determining factors of skill, knnowledge, expertise, success do somewhat align with attraction.

However, at the heart of it money, women, status, everything is attracted to Game. 'Gaming' an economic system can bring money, 'Gaming' a social system can bring social status, fame etc.

So THE GAME is the underlying phenomeon that attracts ALL things to men.

In a side note, having money and all forms of succes in our current society will still leave men lonely and sad, even if they have women, friends, and money. It is because the current large-scale system is too broken for the alignment of all factors into a cohesive unit.

For the successful 40yr old good looking intelligent, successful man, he is living in a world of loneliness, where the system causes loneliness, he will be struggling on the inside though on the outside he may have women, money etc. It is too much work, and if men play this game they can lose it all due to lack of stability. For instance, a guy with everything,he can only have it while he continues 'working hard' but that will tire him out, he will see that people are only near him for his current success. He wont be able to relax and enjoy as for many reasons this life lived within this system is not real, it is not congruent, the illusion is shattered.
 

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Meeting hot women in your 30s is just the same as meeting hot women in your 20s. You people act like 20 year old male are just surrounded by hot women LOL get real. If that was the case so many 20 year old guys wouldn’t be struggling to get dates and using dating apps hoping to meet a girl.
Meeting girls is about going to clubs, cold approaching in public and instagram. As a 30 year old, it’s easier than ever because now I have money and look better
I will say once you 35+ going to clubs is borderline loser behavior unless you're talking country clubs or going to exclusive events i.e. red carpet, private parties, fashion shows etc
 
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