"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
:( since I "believe" in evolution...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
redspicyflag
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listen
I don't wanna turn this into a debate
and get the thread locked
I don't wanna turn this into a debate
and get the thread locked
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Many generations disagree with the generations before them. You have more information now then they did. Hell, some of your ancestors believed the world was flat!
You are your own man, homie. You are allowed to form your own beliefs.
Welcome to being an adult!
You are your own man, homie. You are allowed to form your own beliefs.
Welcome to being an adult!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
redspicyflag
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well my parent are supporting me
and it's not beneficial for me to be on their bad side
and it's not beneficial for me to be on their bad side
iqqi
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Then... DON'T talk about it with them, lol.redspicyflag said:
Ever heard the phrase "pick your battles"?
redspicyflag
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yeah
lol
I didn't bring it up
they're trying to indoctrinate me
I might go covert and break out later
lol
I didn't bring it up
they're trying to indoctrinate me
I might go covert and break out later
well, i doubt they're gonna disown you no matter what you believe about the issue. A good number of Christians are willing to accept evolution (altho I tend to disbelieve it myself). The logical apologist William Lane Craig usually assumes evolution as one of his premises, just for the sake of argument, so his debates can focus on more important issues.
penkitten
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why cant everyone believe in a little of both?
do i believe that a man evolved from an ape? nope.
do i believe that a bird that has flown south evolved into a bird with a different beak as to be able to eat from a certain tree? yes.
everything evolves and changes, but we don't have to believe that an ape changed into a human.
do i believe that a man evolved from an ape? nope.
do i believe that a bird that has flown south evolved into a bird with a different beak as to be able to eat from a certain tree? yes.
everything evolves and changes, but we don't have to believe that an ape changed into a human.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
redspicyflag
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I tried that
its black and white with them
its black and white with them
Bible_Belt
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Genesis 4:13
Cain said to the LORD, "My punishment is more than I can bear. Today you are driving me from the land, and I will be hidden from your presence; I will be a restless wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me."
Ask your parents whom Cain was afraid of when he was being banished for killing Abel. If it was just Adam, Eve, and Cain, then who was there to find him and kill him?
Cain said to the LORD, "My punishment is more than I can bear. Today you are driving me from the land, and I will be hidden from your presence; I will be a restless wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me."
Ask your parents whom Cain was afraid of when he was being banished for killing Abel. If it was just Adam, Eve, and Cain, then who was there to find him and kill him?
redspicyflag--I had very similar situations growing up. I argued with my parents about religion, for YEARS. Lots of anger and tears and crap like that.
You're coming into the time where you make your own decisions about life and form your own opinions. And at your age, you are going to want to tell your parents off probably and get into long debates and try to make them feel stupid and everything. At least that's what I did. Hell I had a huge fight about evolution with my Dad a couple years ago. My mother is STILL praying for my soul (probably as I type this).
Hopefully they are good parents and just want you to be happy. It can be hard to see that through them judging you. They belive one way and as their child they assume you believe like them.
I'm not telling you to NOT debate with your parents. But at the same time, these things usually don't end with "you know what? I thought about it. You're right. I've changed my perspective on this topic."
Hold true to your own values. Express them if you want, but you don't have to. Evolution will not stop being taught if you don't convince your parents. And it won't stop being taught if they don't convince you.
Cherish your own reasoning. At the end of the day, if you're a responsible young man who treats people with respect and dignity (as long as they don't mess with you) your parents should consider themselves lucky.
You're coming into the time where you make your own decisions about life and form your own opinions. And at your age, you are going to want to tell your parents off probably and get into long debates and try to make them feel stupid and everything. At least that's what I did. Hell I had a huge fight about evolution with my Dad a couple years ago. My mother is STILL praying for my soul (probably as I type this).
Hopefully they are good parents and just want you to be happy. It can be hard to see that through them judging you. They belive one way and as their child they assume you believe like them.
I'm not telling you to NOT debate with your parents. But at the same time, these things usually don't end with "you know what? I thought about it. You're right. I've changed my perspective on this topic."
Hold true to your own values. Express them if you want, but you don't have to. Evolution will not stop being taught if you don't convince your parents. And it won't stop being taught if they don't convince you.
Cherish your own reasoning. At the end of the day, if you're a responsible young man who treats people with respect and dignity (as long as they don't mess with you) your parents should consider themselves lucky.
Not only you should go covert but make them believe that they have you convinced.redspicyflag said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1GhYGEoRfo
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I evolved from a baby to a man - with the nourishment of my mother's milk!
That is not evolution - that is living and growing into one's genetic existence!!
The Darwin monkey boys on this forum came from monkeys - their brains are from apes - so they are inferior to humans!! Shun them!!
That is not evolution - that is living and growing into one's genetic existence!!
The Darwin monkey boys on this forum came from monkeys - their brains are from apes - so they are inferior to humans!! Shun them!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DAMN SON1!!!! HOW DO YOU EVEN HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THIS:
When the young man realizes his parents are religious tools, the young man must call upon his greatest strength and advantage as the son:
That advantage is the ability to LIE (and seem truthful
) Hell your parents will believe you if you pretend to believe them. Hell, after you can support yourself just don't ever talk about it with them, and if they bring it up, show your true colors like "BOOYAH1!!!"
And yes, the quotes aroudn booyah means you gotta yell it
When the young man realizes his parents are religious tools, the young man must call upon his greatest strength and advantage as the son:
That advantage is the ability to LIE (and seem truthful
) Hell your parents will believe you if you pretend to believe them. Hell, after you can support yourself just don't ever talk about it with them, and if they bring it up, show your true colors like "BOOYAH1!!!"And yes, the quotes aroudn booyah means you gotta yell it
You obviously know jack sh1t about evolution. Just because you can't understand it doesn't mean it isn't true.Last Man Standing said:
By the way, God is a black lesbian woman. I read it in the Bible, so it must be true. Oh and She (God) also came to me in a dream and told me that She was a black lesbian woman. So yea, it must be true because I beleive it.
redspicyflag
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lol
A lot of help
thanks guys
but let's not lock this thread up
A lot of help
thanks guys
but let's not lock this thread up
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You have to write in a human language - not ape speech - can someone translate for me?Potbelly said:
Rhoto
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People who don't believe in evolution shouldn't be taken seriously. That much blind trust in a book written in the dark ages is a mental disorder. These are the same people who KNEW the world was flat, who think the word "god" has always been on our money and in our pledge, and they probably think Bush is doing great.
Organized religion was/is used for control. Sure, a lot of it may have made sense a thousand years ago, and it served a purpose. Now its, just laughable. The catholic church is one of the richest organizations on the planet, for ****s sake, the pope wears prada shoes.
Evangelicals are a bigger threat to this nation than any one in the middle east.
Think for yourself man.
Organized religion was/is used for control. Sure, a lot of it may have made sense a thousand years ago, and it served a purpose. Now its, just laughable. The catholic church is one of the richest organizations on the planet, for ****s sake, the pope wears prada shoes.
Evangelicals are a bigger threat to this nation than any one in the middle east.
Think for yourself man.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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