"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:( since I "believe" in evolution...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
redspicyflag
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listen
I don't wanna turn this into a debate
and get the thread locked
I don't wanna turn this into a debate
and get the thread locked
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Many generations disagree with the generations before them. You have more information now then they did. Hell, some of your ancestors believed the world was flat!
You are your own man, homie. You are allowed to form your own beliefs.
Welcome to being an adult!
You are your own man, homie. You are allowed to form your own beliefs.
Welcome to being an adult!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
redspicyflag
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well my parent are supporting me
and it's not beneficial for me to be on their bad side
and it's not beneficial for me to be on their bad side
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Then... DON'T talk about it with them, lol.redspicyflag said:
Ever heard the phrase "pick your battles"?
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
yeah
lol
I didn't bring it up
they're trying to indoctrinate me
I might go covert and break out later
lol
I didn't bring it up
they're trying to indoctrinate me
I might go covert and break out later
well, i doubt they're gonna disown you no matter what you believe about the issue. A good number of Christians are willing to accept evolution (altho I tend to disbelieve it myself). The logical apologist William Lane Craig usually assumes evolution as one of his premises, just for the sake of argument, so his debates can focus on more important issues.
penkitten
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why cant everyone believe in a little of both?
do i believe that a man evolved from an ape? nope.
do i believe that a bird that has flown south evolved into a bird with a different beak as to be able to eat from a certain tree? yes.
everything evolves and changes, but we don't have to believe that an ape changed into a human.
do i believe that a man evolved from an ape? nope.
do i believe that a bird that has flown south evolved into a bird with a different beak as to be able to eat from a certain tree? yes.
everything evolves and changes, but we don't have to believe that an ape changed into a human.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I tried that
its black and white with them
its black and white with them
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Genesis 4:13
Cain said to the LORD, "My punishment is more than I can bear. Today you are driving me from the land, and I will be hidden from your presence; I will be a restless wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me."
Ask your parents whom Cain was afraid of when he was being banished for killing Abel. If it was just Adam, Eve, and Cain, then who was there to find him and kill him?
Cain said to the LORD, "My punishment is more than I can bear. Today you are driving me from the land, and I will be hidden from your presence; I will be a restless wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me."
Ask your parents whom Cain was afraid of when he was being banished for killing Abel. If it was just Adam, Eve, and Cain, then who was there to find him and kill him?
redspicyflag--I had very similar situations growing up. I argued with my parents about religion, for YEARS. Lots of anger and tears and crap like that.
You're coming into the time where you make your own decisions about life and form your own opinions. And at your age, you are going to want to tell your parents off probably and get into long debates and try to make them feel stupid and everything. At least that's what I did. Hell I had a huge fight about evolution with my Dad a couple years ago. My mother is STILL praying for my soul (probably as I type this).
Hopefully they are good parents and just want you to be happy. It can be hard to see that through them judging you. They belive one way and as their child they assume you believe like them.
I'm not telling you to NOT debate with your parents. But at the same time, these things usually don't end with "you know what? I thought about it. You're right. I've changed my perspective on this topic."
Hold true to your own values. Express them if you want, but you don't have to. Evolution will not stop being taught if you don't convince your parents. And it won't stop being taught if they don't convince you.
Cherish your own reasoning. At the end of the day, if you're a responsible young man who treats people with respect and dignity (as long as they don't mess with you) your parents should consider themselves lucky.
You're coming into the time where you make your own decisions about life and form your own opinions. And at your age, you are going to want to tell your parents off probably and get into long debates and try to make them feel stupid and everything. At least that's what I did. Hell I had a huge fight about evolution with my Dad a couple years ago. My mother is STILL praying for my soul (probably as I type this).
Hopefully they are good parents and just want you to be happy. It can be hard to see that through them judging you. They belive one way and as their child they assume you believe like them.
I'm not telling you to NOT debate with your parents. But at the same time, these things usually don't end with "you know what? I thought about it. You're right. I've changed my perspective on this topic."
Hold true to your own values. Express them if you want, but you don't have to. Evolution will not stop being taught if you don't convince your parents. And it won't stop being taught if they don't convince you.
Cherish your own reasoning. At the end of the day, if you're a responsible young man who treats people with respect and dignity (as long as they don't mess with you) your parents should consider themselves lucky.
Not only you should go covert but make them believe that they have you convinced.redspicyflag said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1GhYGEoRfo
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I evolved from a baby to a man - with the nourishment of my mother's milk!
That is not evolution - that is living and growing into one's genetic existence!!
The Darwin monkey boys on this forum came from monkeys - their brains are from apes - so they are inferior to humans!! Shun them!!
That is not evolution - that is living and growing into one's genetic existence!!
The Darwin monkey boys on this forum came from monkeys - their brains are from apes - so they are inferior to humans!! Shun them!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DAMN SON1!!!! HOW DO YOU EVEN HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THIS:
When the young man realizes his parents are religious tools, the young man must call upon his greatest strength and advantage as the son:
That advantage is the ability to LIE (and seem truthful
) Hell your parents will believe you if you pretend to believe them. Hell, after you can support yourself just don't ever talk about it with them, and if they bring it up, show your true colors like "BOOYAH1!!!"
And yes, the quotes aroudn booyah means you gotta yell it
When the young man realizes his parents are religious tools, the young man must call upon his greatest strength and advantage as the son:
That advantage is the ability to LIE (and seem truthful
) Hell your parents will believe you if you pretend to believe them. Hell, after you can support yourself just don't ever talk about it with them, and if they bring it up, show your true colors like "BOOYAH1!!!"And yes, the quotes aroudn booyah means you gotta yell it
You obviously know jack sh1t about evolution. Just because you can't understand it doesn't mean it isn't true.Last Man Standing said:
By the way, God is a black lesbian woman. I read it in the Bible, so it must be true. Oh and She (God) also came to me in a dream and told me that She was a black lesbian woman. So yea, it must be true because I beleive it.
redspicyflag
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lol
A lot of help
thanks guys
but let's not lock this thread up
A lot of help
thanks guys
but let's not lock this thread up
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You have to write in a human language - not ape speech - can someone translate for me?Potbelly said:
Rhoto
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People who don't believe in evolution shouldn't be taken seriously. That much blind trust in a book written in the dark ages is a mental disorder. These are the same people who KNEW the world was flat, who think the word "god" has always been on our money and in our pledge, and they probably think Bush is doing great.
Organized religion was/is used for control. Sure, a lot of it may have made sense a thousand years ago, and it served a purpose. Now its, just laughable. The catholic church is one of the richest organizations on the planet, for ****s sake, the pope wears prada shoes.
Evangelicals are a bigger threat to this nation than any one in the middle east.
Think for yourself man.
Organized religion was/is used for control. Sure, a lot of it may have made sense a thousand years ago, and it served a purpose. Now its, just laughable. The catholic church is one of the richest organizations on the planet, for ****s sake, the pope wears prada shoes.
Evangelicals are a bigger threat to this nation than any one in the middle east.
Think for yourself man.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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