"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey lifeforce haven't you said in the other thread that bodybuilding is absolutely not about getting women? how come that change of thinking?


Originally posted by Double

but i like the reversed way more. the body influences our emotions, and our emotions influences our thoughts. SO, with working out you WILL change your negative beliefs into positive beliefs. because of more muscle mass/testosterone you will FEEL more confident, and because you will feel more confident you will THINK more confident.
I like the way of working out so much because it gives me FEEDBACK because i can SEE and TOUCH my progresses.
haha a good post. totally forgot about it it's the best thing i read in a while lol
 

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It is good to see us guys getting realistic about ourselves and what we need to do to succeed in every aspect of life.

Good luck to all here. Do not give up. When you are feeling like shyt continue lifting that weight. Keep eating that plain chargrilled chicken 5 days in a row. IRON DISCIPLINE. Take back your masculinity and become who you want to be, at all costs

"Immortality is yours. TAKE IT!"
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, I get it.
Its not since I actually started working out I hav enoticed a real change in my attitude. if i am bored I will work out, this is the ONLY time I'll work out, if i am doing other things that have importance in my life I'll do them. But when I plan to go out somewhere, be it with a chick or on some social excursion I will work out. This knocks me into this thinking pattern "I just did something important with my body today, after what I did I am healthier and in the end looking better for it" which in turn makes me alot more confident, and it shows dudes...it shows :)

Looks do play a roll in this game, they make it easier, alot easier.
 

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lets simplify it

The Elephant Man could have had an A* personality...correct me if I am wrong, I didn't see anyone ****ing him.
 
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