"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lifeforce

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey lifeforce haven't you said in the other thread that bodybuilding is absolutely not about getting women? how come that change of thinking?


Originally posted by Double

but i like the reversed way more. the body influences our emotions, and our emotions influences our thoughts. SO, with working out you WILL change your negative beliefs into positive beliefs. because of more muscle mass/testosterone you will FEEL more confident, and because you will feel more confident you will THINK more confident.
I like the way of working out so much because it gives me FEEDBACK because i can SEE and TOUCH my progresses.
haha a good post. totally forgot about it it's the best thing i read in a while lol
 

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It is good to see us guys getting realistic about ourselves and what we need to do to succeed in every aspect of life.

Good luck to all here. Do not give up. When you are feeling like shyt continue lifting that weight. Keep eating that plain chargrilled chicken 5 days in a row. IRON DISCIPLINE. Take back your masculinity and become who you want to be, at all costs

"Immortality is yours. TAKE IT!"
Achilles
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guys, I get it.
Its not since I actually started working out I hav enoticed a real change in my attitude. if i am bored I will work out, this is the ONLY time I'll work out, if i am doing other things that have importance in my life I'll do them. But when I plan to go out somewhere, be it with a chick or on some social excursion I will work out. This knocks me into this thinking pattern "I just did something important with my body today, after what I did I am healthier and in the end looking better for it" which in turn makes me alot more confident, and it shows dudes...it shows :)

Looks do play a roll in this game, they make it easier, alot easier.
 

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lets simplify it

The Elephant Man could have had an A* personality...correct me if I am wrong, I didn't see anyone ****ing him.
 
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