"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Silver's Kiss Close Routine

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Silver's Kiss Close Routine

*** This tip is aimed more towards the shy girl type BUT it may be used on any personality type ***

Ok, so you're chatting to the HB and having a laugh with her. She's responding well to teasing, kino, some C+F, some slight negs and great conversation. She's smiling and laughing with you.

In your mind you're telling yourself 'This is going great! Oh crap... I think it's time to kiss her...!'

What do you do now?

Here's what:

Ask her if she's adventurous:
HB: (90% of the time she'll respond with:) Yeah, I guess...

Ask her if she's fun:
HB: Yes

Ask her if she's spontaneous:
HB: I suppose so...

YOU: Well then, prove it!

The chances she'll prove it are small, she might respond with something like:

HB: Um... I dunno...

If this happens, then it's going perfectly to plan! 100% A-OK!

Now, neg her for being 'boring' or use 'Wow, you're no fun at all are you?!' and smile while saying this. Now it's your turn...

YOU: Ok then, you ask me what I've just asked you

HB: Ok, are you adventurous?
YOU: Yes! (smile)

HB: Are you fun?
YOU: Of course I am!

HB: Are you spontaneous?
YOU: Definately!

YOU: Now, you gonna ask me to prove it or what?!
HB: Ok, prove it!

Now, hold out your hand with palm facing upwards. The majority of the time she'll put hers in yours. If not, try again.

Now what you do is lead and isolate her, while holding her hand, to a quiet place of the pub/club/bar.

Get her close to you:

YOU: You asked me if I was fun, adventurous and spontaneous... yeah?
HB: Yeah!
YOU: Ok, well then, lean closer...

She should lean in.

YOU: Closer!

She leans in more... When her face is about 4/5 inches away from yours...

Go for the kiss straight off.

She can't blame you for anything because SHE asked YOU were you SPONTANEOUS, FUN, and ADVENTUROUS! She has also asked you to PROVE IT! You've lead her to a quiet place (ADVENTUROUS), you're laughing and joking with her (FUN) and you've kissed her (SPONTANEOUS). That's proof enough for me...

How can she argue with that?!

Silver
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey man,

I dont visit ASF so I wouldnt have a clue if it had been posted before.

I made the above up myself but if some other guy has created this routine before me then thats fine - credit to him.
 

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that seems so involved to me. it's almost as if your tricking her into kissing her as if she doesn't want to or something. i usually cant even remember when i go in for the kiss...it just feel so right and natural and it happens.

if you need a game plan like this its fine, however way before this you should get "that feeling" and THAT is when you should just go for it. Have some balls, and give her what she wants.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ASF = alt.seduction.fast a newsgroup started by Ross Jeffreis I believe before any of this seduction stuff came into existence. It still exists (google it) but its a war zone now. mASF = Moderated ASF is a better version but that stuff is geared toward The Game.
 

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Its not a be-all-and-end all solution to a kiss close - its just a freaking fun routine you guys might like to try...!

God! Dont mention it guys...
 

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This is a spin-off of Swinggcat's kissclose. He asks the 2 questions if they are adventurous and spontanious, then he says "Let's find out" and goes in for the kiss. Plain and simple. What you are doing here is making a great routine into a long and awkward thing. It becomes a huge deal and it seems VERY planned. Stick to swinggcat's shorter version. It's great!

If she draws away from the kiss, you tell her that she wasn't telling the truth and that she's a bad girl or something. Easy to make playful comments in case of rejection, so it doesn't get weird.
 

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Crap!

Sorry for that guys. I seriously never read swinggcat's version! If I had I would never had posted.

Damn, and I thought I made this up! lol Cheers
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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