"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Silver's Kiss Close Routine

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Silver's Kiss Close Routine

*** This tip is aimed more towards the shy girl type BUT it may be used on any personality type ***

Ok, so you're chatting to the HB and having a laugh with her. She's responding well to teasing, kino, some C+F, some slight negs and great conversation. She's smiling and laughing with you.

In your mind you're telling yourself 'This is going great! Oh crap... I think it's time to kiss her...!'

What do you do now?

Here's what:

Ask her if she's adventurous:
HB: (90% of the time she'll respond with:) Yeah, I guess...

Ask her if she's fun:
HB: Yes

Ask her if she's spontaneous:
HB: I suppose so...

YOU: Well then, prove it!

The chances she'll prove it are small, she might respond with something like:

HB: Um... I dunno...

If this happens, then it's going perfectly to plan! 100% A-OK!

Now, neg her for being 'boring' or use 'Wow, you're no fun at all are you?!' and smile while saying this. Now it's your turn...

YOU: Ok then, you ask me what I've just asked you

HB: Ok, are you adventurous?
YOU: Yes! (smile)

HB: Are you fun?
YOU: Of course I am!

HB: Are you spontaneous?
YOU: Definately!

YOU: Now, you gonna ask me to prove it or what?!
HB: Ok, prove it!

Now, hold out your hand with palm facing upwards. The majority of the time she'll put hers in yours. If not, try again.

Now what you do is lead and isolate her, while holding her hand, to a quiet place of the pub/club/bar.

Get her close to you:

YOU: You asked me if I was fun, adventurous and spontaneous... yeah?
HB: Yeah!
YOU: Ok, well then, lean closer...

She should lean in.

YOU: Closer!

She leans in more... When her face is about 4/5 inches away from yours...

Go for the kiss straight off.

She can't blame you for anything because SHE asked YOU were you SPONTANEOUS, FUN, and ADVENTUROUS! She has also asked you to PROVE IT! You've lead her to a quiet place (ADVENTUROUS), you're laughing and joking with her (FUN) and you've kissed her (SPONTANEOUS). That's proof enough for me...

How can she argue with that?!

Silver
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey man,

I dont visit ASF so I wouldnt have a clue if it had been posted before.

I made the above up myself but if some other guy has created this routine before me then thats fine - credit to him.
 

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that seems so involved to me. it's almost as if your tricking her into kissing her as if she doesn't want to or something. i usually cant even remember when i go in for the kiss...it just feel so right and natural and it happens.

if you need a game plan like this its fine, however way before this you should get "that feeling" and THAT is when you should just go for it. Have some balls, and give her what she wants.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ASF = alt.seduction.fast a newsgroup started by Ross Jeffreis I believe before any of this seduction stuff came into existence. It still exists (google it) but its a war zone now. mASF = Moderated ASF is a better version but that stuff is geared toward The Game.
 

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Its not a be-all-and-end all solution to a kiss close - its just a freaking fun routine you guys might like to try...!

God! Dont mention it guys...
 

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This is a spin-off of Swinggcat's kissclose. He asks the 2 questions if they are adventurous and spontanious, then he says "Let's find out" and goes in for the kiss. Plain and simple. What you are doing here is making a great routine into a long and awkward thing. It becomes a huge deal and it seems VERY planned. Stick to swinggcat's shorter version. It's great!

If she draws away from the kiss, you tell her that she wasn't telling the truth and that she's a bad girl or something. Easy to make playful comments in case of rejection, so it doesn't get weird.
 

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Crap!

Sorry for that guys. I seriously never read swinggcat's version! If I had I would never had posted.

Damn, and I thought I made this up! lol Cheers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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