“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Silver's Kiss Close Routine

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Silver's Kiss Close Routine

*** This tip is aimed more towards the shy girl type BUT it may be used on any personality type ***

Ok, so you're chatting to the HB and having a laugh with her. She's responding well to teasing, kino, some C+F, some slight negs and great conversation. She's smiling and laughing with you.

In your mind you're telling yourself 'This is going great! Oh crap... I think it's time to kiss her...!'

What do you do now?

Here's what:

Ask her if she's adventurous:
HB: (90% of the time she'll respond with:) Yeah, I guess...

Ask her if she's fun:
HB: Yes

Ask her if she's spontaneous:
HB: I suppose so...

YOU: Well then, prove it!

The chances she'll prove it are small, she might respond with something like:

HB: Um... I dunno...

If this happens, then it's going perfectly to plan! 100% A-OK!

Now, neg her for being 'boring' or use 'Wow, you're no fun at all are you?!' and smile while saying this. Now it's your turn...

YOU: Ok then, you ask me what I've just asked you

HB: Ok, are you adventurous?
YOU: Yes! (smile)

HB: Are you fun?
YOU: Of course I am!

HB: Are you spontaneous?
YOU: Definately!

YOU: Now, you gonna ask me to prove it or what?!
HB: Ok, prove it!

Now, hold out your hand with palm facing upwards. The majority of the time she'll put hers in yours. If not, try again.

Now what you do is lead and isolate her, while holding her hand, to a quiet place of the pub/club/bar.

Get her close to you:

YOU: You asked me if I was fun, adventurous and spontaneous... yeah?
HB: Yeah!
YOU: Ok, well then, lean closer...

She should lean in.

YOU: Closer!

She leans in more... When her face is about 4/5 inches away from yours...

Go for the kiss straight off.

She can't blame you for anything because SHE asked YOU were you SPONTANEOUS, FUN, and ADVENTUROUS! She has also asked you to PROVE IT! You've lead her to a quiet place (ADVENTUROUS), you're laughing and joking with her (FUN) and you've kissed her (SPONTANEOUS). That's proof enough for me...

How can she argue with that?!

Silver
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey man,

I dont visit ASF so I wouldnt have a clue if it had been posted before.

I made the above up myself but if some other guy has created this routine before me then thats fine - credit to him.
 

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that seems so involved to me. it's almost as if your tricking her into kissing her as if she doesn't want to or something. i usually cant even remember when i go in for the kiss...it just feel so right and natural and it happens.

if you need a game plan like this its fine, however way before this you should get "that feeling" and THAT is when you should just go for it. Have some balls, and give her what she wants.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ASF = alt.seduction.fast a newsgroup started by Ross Jeffreis I believe before any of this seduction stuff came into existence. It still exists (google it) but its a war zone now. mASF = Moderated ASF is a better version but that stuff is geared toward The Game.
 

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Its not a be-all-and-end all solution to a kiss close - its just a freaking fun routine you guys might like to try...!

God! Dont mention it guys...
 

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This is a spin-off of Swinggcat's kissclose. He asks the 2 questions if they are adventurous and spontanious, then he says "Let's find out" and goes in for the kiss. Plain and simple. What you are doing here is making a great routine into a long and awkward thing. It becomes a huge deal and it seems VERY planned. Stick to swinggcat's shorter version. It's great!

If she draws away from the kiss, you tell her that she wasn't telling the truth and that she's a bad girl or something. Easy to make playful comments in case of rejection, so it doesn't get weird.
 

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Crap!

Sorry for that guys. I seriously never read swinggcat's version! If I had I would never had posted.

Damn, and I thought I made this up! lol Cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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