"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Signs she likes you and texting !

TheGambino

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Guys two questions in this post.

First: Who knows a great threat with a list of things girls do when they actually are into you. I would like to see a list again if possible.

Two: It's all about texting these days, I hate it any views how you guys succesfully texted that lead to a date or more?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BackInTheGame78

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Yeah its really simple...

Send a first message, she replies...

Give a little comment about what she said and ask a variation of "so what's your schedule look like this week"/"what days would you be available to meet for a drink"

She will give you the days, wait a few hours and CALL her...BS for a few minutes and set up the date.

Go on date. Simple as that.

No long texts, no conversations. Straight to the point.

It's been a long time since I got flaked on with this method...maybe like 15 straight dates with no flakes, got 2 more set up for this weekend, neither of them I expect to flake
 

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How long is a peice of string ?

Depending on how experienced the chick is in dating she could throw any number of IOI’s your way

These days I tend to ignore said IOI’s, i dont need the chick to confirm to me shes interested in me by playing with her hair

Sure i pick up on it , but to be honest im confident enough in my abilities to know that any chick who can hold a conversation for over 10 mins with me she is DTF

You always know in your gut whether the potential to fvck is there or not , listen to your gut more !

As for texting just apply the same push pull method you would as if she was giving you LMR in the bedroom

I tend to find texts like

“ah actually forget about it “

“wow i didn’t think you where like that”

“ so your THAT kind of girl”

Combined with ghosting gets excellent results on her hamster
 

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The best measure of interest is in person, get a few texts in, then set up the date to gauge her interest.
 
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