"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Signs she likes you and texting !

TheGambino

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Guys two questions in this post.

First: Who knows a great threat with a list of things girls do when they actually are into you. I would like to see a list again if possible.

Two: It's all about texting these days, I hate it any views how you guys succesfully texted that lead to a date or more?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah its really simple...

Send a first message, she replies...

Give a little comment about what she said and ask a variation of "so what's your schedule look like this week"/"what days would you be available to meet for a drink"

She will give you the days, wait a few hours and CALL her...BS for a few minutes and set up the date.

Go on date. Simple as that.

No long texts, no conversations. Straight to the point.

It's been a long time since I got flaked on with this method...maybe like 15 straight dates with no flakes, got 2 more set up for this weekend, neither of them I expect to flake
 

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How long is a peice of string ?

Depending on how experienced the chick is in dating she could throw any number of IOI’s your way

These days I tend to ignore said IOI’s, i dont need the chick to confirm to me shes interested in me by playing with her hair

Sure i pick up on it , but to be honest im confident enough in my abilities to know that any chick who can hold a conversation for over 10 mins with me she is DTF

You always know in your gut whether the potential to fvck is there or not , listen to your gut more !

As for texting just apply the same push pull method you would as if she was giving you LMR in the bedroom

I tend to find texts like

“ah actually forget about it “

“wow i didn’t think you where like that”

“ so your THAT kind of girl”

Combined with ghosting gets excellent results on her hamster
 

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The best measure of interest is in person, get a few texts in, then set up the date to gauge her interest.
 
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