"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Here are signs which girls might give you if they're attracted to ya:
1) Smile a lot at ya
2) Laugh at all your jokes, even if they're not funny
3) Make lots of eye contact
4) Pupils dilate when looking at you (they dilate naturally though when you drunk or are in dark light)
5) Touch you - like holding your hand or hugging you etc.
6) Brush hair often when chatting to you (could be ambiguous coz they may just be oing it naturally, on the other hand, they could be flustered and nervous)
7) Arms aren't crossed when talking to you
8) Seems jealous when you flirt with other girls
9) Asks your friends about you
10) Tries to make friends with your friends
11) Phones you up and generally wants to be with you
Anyone able to think of more signs? Please post here!
-Makaveli da Don
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've noticed when i'm at the bar, every girl i talk to has dilated pupils. I know i'm good looking, however i realize that every girl isn't going to be interested in me!
CobraGT is right. Also, alcohol will also cause the pupils to dilate. What matters most is whether they dilate more than they are normally. Try to judge her normal dilation when she's talking to a friend, ordering a drink, or looking away for a while.
Some women may be showing you all these signs of attractions in a way to lead you on.
So your signs are not realible.!
Have a nice day!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ok, so it might be true that they may be leading you on with those signs too, but some of them are given out by girls who find you attractive. You've just got to learn to differentiate between the girls who are leading you on and the sincere ones.
I honestly don't think it's possible to find out if they're leading you on or not, unless you ask for their number, they give it, then they go out on a date with you. If they do that, it shows they're interested in you.
Nice list... if only some of those things would happen.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Or maybe it is heavy LSD use and she hallucinated you into Brad Pitt. That would explain the sex.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.
First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)
Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her!
There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words.
Originally posted by BGMan: First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)
I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.
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CASANOVA
"Always love thy enemies, just in case all your friends turn out to be a bunch of bastards."
"Whenever evil befalls us, we ought to ask ourselves, after the first suffering, how we can turn it into good. So shall we take occasion, from one bitter root, to raise perhaps many flowers."
Leigh Hunt
"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Originally posted by BGMan: It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.
First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)
Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her!
There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words.
I realize this post is old. But, something about the whole pupils dilating thing.
I think that we all recognize this subconciously. I could always tell by the 'way' a girl looked at me if she liked me. Reading about the pupils dilating just sorta clarified it for me.
So I wouldn't concentrate too much on pupil size, more on the general way she is lookin at ya. Sorry if this is too vague.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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