"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sign of submission??

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don't know watt happen but it was weird.

Me a chick i've seein before.. it was my cousins friend(both females) this chick had seein me before too but never talked. saw her once at a party.. and once she brought her to my house.. didnt talk or anything because i was talking to my other cousins.

anyways a few days ago we met again i was walking out the mall and there they come coming in and from far away i hear her say ''theres a cute guy'' i knew it was me because i was the only dude coming out, and in there eye sight range.. then my cousin replys to her ''oh thats my cousin''.. and she just stays quiet we aproach i greet them both.. but to my surprise i got really nervous. pathetic i know.. but i think watt got me nervous was that i sense her nervous vibe and nervous body language, so then as i talk to my cousin i stare at her and she just looks down at the ground i stare at her for about 5 seconds. she look so nervous and out of place.. shiiitt wass crazy.. maybe i was way too intimidating to her? idk
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds like she finds you highly attractive.
 
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Jair213 said:
don't know watt happen but it was weird.

Me a chick i've seein before.. it was my cousins friend(both females) this chick had seein me before too but never talked. saw her once at a party.. and once she brought her to my house.. didnt talk or anything because i was talking to my other cousins.

anyways a few days ago we met again i was walking out the mall and there they come coming in and from far away i hear her say ''theres a cute guy'' i knew it was me because i was the only dude coming out, and in there eye sight range.. then my cousin replys to her ''oh thats my cousin''.. and she just stays quiet we aproach i greet them both.. but to my surprise i got really nervous. pathetic i know.. but i think watt got me nervous was that i sense her nervous vibe and nervous body language, so then as i talk to my cousin i stare at her and she just looks down at the ground i stare at her for about 5 seconds. she look so nervous and out of place.. shiiitt wass crazy.. maybe i was way too intimidating to her? idk
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Time to make a move, bro. You've got this one.
 
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As The Gambler said. From what I see she's even more nervous then you are, get in contact, and meet up with her, and post the results.
 
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