"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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don't know watt happen but it was weird.

Me a chick i've seein before.. it was my cousins friend(both females) this chick had seein me before too but never talked. saw her once at a party.. and once she brought her to my house.. didnt talk or anything because i was talking to my other cousins.

anyways a few days ago we met again i was walking out the mall and there they come coming in and from far away i hear her say ''theres a cute guy'' i knew it was me because i was the only dude coming out, and in there eye sight range.. then my cousin replys to her ''oh thats my cousin''.. and she just stays quiet we aproach i greet them both.. but to my surprise i got really nervous. pathetic i know.. but i think watt got me nervous was that i sense her nervous vibe and nervous body language, so then as i talk to my cousin i stare at her and she just looks down at the ground i stare at her for about 5 seconds. she look so nervous and out of place.. shiiitt wass crazy.. maybe i was way too intimidating to her? idk
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like she finds you highly attractive.
 
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Jair213 said:
don't know watt happen but it was weird.

Me a chick i've seein before.. it was my cousins friend(both females) this chick had seein me before too but never talked. saw her once at a party.. and once she brought her to my house.. didnt talk or anything because i was talking to my other cousins.

anyways a few days ago we met again i was walking out the mall and there they come coming in and from far away i hear her say ''theres a cute guy'' i knew it was me because i was the only dude coming out, and in there eye sight range.. then my cousin replys to her ''oh thats my cousin''.. and she just stays quiet we aproach i greet them both.. but to my surprise i got really nervous. pathetic i know.. but i think watt got me nervous was that i sense her nervous vibe and nervous body language, so then as i talk to my cousin i stare at her and she just looks down at the ground i stare at her for about 5 seconds. she look so nervous and out of place.. shiiitt wass crazy.. maybe i was way too intimidating to her? idk
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Time to make a move, bro. You've got this one.
 
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As The Gambler said. From what I see she's even more nervous then you are, get in contact, and meet up with her, and post the results.
 
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