"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sign of submission??

Jair213

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don't know watt happen but it was weird.

Me a chick i've seein before.. it was my cousins friend(both females) this chick had seein me before too but never talked. saw her once at a party.. and once she brought her to my house.. didnt talk or anything because i was talking to my other cousins.

anyways a few days ago we met again i was walking out the mall and there they come coming in and from far away i hear her say ''theres a cute guy'' i knew it was me because i was the only dude coming out, and in there eye sight range.. then my cousin replys to her ''oh thats my cousin''.. and she just stays quiet we aproach i greet them both.. but to my surprise i got really nervous. pathetic i know.. but i think watt got me nervous was that i sense her nervous vibe and nervous body language, so then as i talk to my cousin i stare at her and she just looks down at the ground i stare at her for about 5 seconds. she look so nervous and out of place.. shiiitt wass crazy.. maybe i was way too intimidating to her? idk
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pdx1138

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Sounds like she finds you highly attractive.
 

The Gambler

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Jair213 said:
don't know watt happen but it was weird.

Me a chick i've seein before.. it was my cousins friend(both females) this chick had seein me before too but never talked. saw her once at a party.. and once she brought her to my house.. didnt talk or anything because i was talking to my other cousins.

anyways a few days ago we met again i was walking out the mall and there they come coming in and from far away i hear her say ''theres a cute guy'' i knew it was me because i was the only dude coming out, and in there eye sight range.. then my cousin replys to her ''oh thats my cousin''.. and she just stays quiet we aproach i greet them both.. but to my surprise i got really nervous. pathetic i know.. but i think watt got me nervous was that i sense her nervous vibe and nervous body language, so then as i talk to my cousin i stare at her and she just looks down at the ground i stare at her for about 5 seconds. she look so nervous and out of place.. shiiitt wass crazy.. maybe i was way too intimidating to her? idk
Time to make a move, bro. You've got this one.
 

blind_one

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As The Gambler said. From what I see she's even more nervous then you are, get in contact, and meet up with her, and post the results.
 
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