"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sigh... Maybe that one teacher was right.

originaldj

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Trust me you can't define autism that easily.

But Viper if all you do is complain than all you need is confidence. Don't put all your "happiness" in things you dont have like a gf. Everyone has something going for them just find what you have and get your happiness from that. For example I usually get my happiness from my grades, parents, friends and sense of humour.
I get very little happiness from girls becasue its not as important as you make it seem.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rint

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Ur just trying to find an excuse ur a senior DJ dood does that mean nothing? U need to read EVERYTHING HERE and memorize it takes like 1-2 years to become a true DJ
 

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Kid... your teacher's an idiot... You'e prolly just a nerd... Change your appearance and work on your social skills.. You can improve.. anyone can! honestly I think therapy is useless for most people..
 

Flabbergasped?

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Wow, autism? Are you serious?

A psychiatric disorder of childhood characterized by marked deficits in communication and social interaction, preoccupation with fantasy, language impairment, and abnormal behavior, such as repetitive acts and excessive attachment to certain objects. It is usually associated with intellectual impairment.

Unless your IQ is abnormally low, or you're OCD on several things, I highly doubt you have autism.

Wait, am I reviving a dead thread?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MetalFortress

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Originally posted by Rint
Ur just trying to find an excuse ur a senior DJ dood does that mean nothing? U need to read EVERYTHING HERE and memorize it takes like 1-2 years to become a true DJ
Of course it means nothing. You get it by post count, not actual merit.
 
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