"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sigh... Maybe that one teacher was right.

originaldj

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Trust me you can't define autism that easily.

But Viper if all you do is complain than all you need is confidence. Don't put all your "happiness" in things you dont have like a gf. Everyone has something going for them just find what you have and get your happiness from that. For example I usually get my happiness from my grades, parents, friends and sense of humour.
I get very little happiness from girls becasue its not as important as you make it seem.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rint

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Ur just trying to find an excuse ur a senior DJ dood does that mean nothing? U need to read EVERYTHING HERE and memorize it takes like 1-2 years to become a true DJ
 

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Kid... your teacher's an idiot... You'e prolly just a nerd... Change your appearance and work on your social skills.. You can improve.. anyone can! honestly I think therapy is useless for most people..
 

Flabbergasped?

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Wow, autism? Are you serious?

A psychiatric disorder of childhood characterized by marked deficits in communication and social interaction, preoccupation with fantasy, language impairment, and abnormal behavior, such as repetitive acts and excessive attachment to certain objects. It is usually associated with intellectual impairment.

Unless your IQ is abnormally low, or you're OCD on several things, I highly doubt you have autism.

Wait, am I reviving a dead thread?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Rint
Ur just trying to find an excuse ur a senior DJ dood does that mean nothing? U need to read EVERYTHING HERE and memorize it takes like 1-2 years to become a true DJ
Of course it means nothing. You get it by post count, not actual merit.
 
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