"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sigh... Maybe that one teacher was right.

originaldj

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Trust me you can't define autism that easily.

But Viper if all you do is complain than all you need is confidence. Don't put all your "happiness" in things you dont have like a gf. Everyone has something going for them just find what you have and get your happiness from that. For example I usually get my happiness from my grades, parents, friends and sense of humour.
I get very little happiness from girls becasue its not as important as you make it seem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rint

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Ur just trying to find an excuse ur a senior DJ dood does that mean nothing? U need to read EVERYTHING HERE and memorize it takes like 1-2 years to become a true DJ
 

OfficeSpace

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Kid... your teacher's an idiot... You'e prolly just a nerd... Change your appearance and work on your social skills.. You can improve.. anyone can! honestly I think therapy is useless for most people..
 

Flabbergasped?

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Wow, autism? Are you serious?

A psychiatric disorder of childhood characterized by marked deficits in communication and social interaction, preoccupation with fantasy, language impairment, and abnormal behavior, such as repetitive acts and excessive attachment to certain objects. It is usually associated with intellectual impairment.

Unless your IQ is abnormally low, or you're OCD on several things, I highly doubt you have autism.

Wait, am I reviving a dead thread?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MetalFortress

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Originally posted by Rint
Ur just trying to find an excuse ur a senior DJ dood does that mean nothing? U need to read EVERYTHING HERE and memorize it takes like 1-2 years to become a true DJ
Of course it means nothing. You get it by post count, not actual merit.
 
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