"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sigh... Maybe that one teacher was right.

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Maybe that one teacher was right, maybe I do have something called 'autism'. If that was true, that would explain my life being such a damn social failure, never having any friends, not having any friends, not being as open as other people, that might explain this block that I always feel in my brain, maybe that explains my bad vision, maybe that explains why I JUST CAN'T trust people, if this is true, then it by all means, sucks because of this, I will never be able to lead a good social life. And I want to know, first of all, do you think from the things that I listed, that I really do have it? Secondly, if you knew you were born with this sucky ass disease, how would you cope with it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You don't have any disease, you need to lighten up.
That's it, really. Stop over-dramatizing things in proper teenage fashion :D
 

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Originally posted by MrS
You don't have any disease, you need to lighten up.
That's it, really. Stop over-dramatizing things in proper teenage fashion :D
I'm certainly not normal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Viper
What's a therapist going to do? It's not like it's curable.
We've tried to help but enough is enough. You b*tch and moan and complain and now you think you have a disease because youre a nerd and a loser. Stop being in fvckin denial about your life. Youre THE MOST NEGATIVE PERSON ive ever fvckin come in contact with. Until you stop making excuses for yourself, dont post this useless bullsh*t because no one feels sorry for your punk ass. Go tell your parents about your newly contracted disease and see what they say. I kinda think youre a troll cause youre ALWAYS at rock bottom. Nothing positive EVER happens. Go to a shrink and let them at least get paid to put up with your dumbass.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We've tried to help but enough is enough. You b*tch and moan and complain and now you think you have a disease because youre a nerd and a loser. Stop being in fvckin denial about your life. Youre THE MOST NEGATIVE PERSON ive ever fvckin come in contact with. Until you stop making excuses for yourself, dont post this useless bullsh*t because no one feels sorry for your punk ass. Go tell your parents about your newly contracted disease and see what they say. I kinda think youre a troll cause youre ALWAYS at rock bottom. Nothing positive EVER happens. Go to a shrink and let them at least get paid to put up with your dumbass.
You know, what, I think your the troll here, you don't even read the post for crying out loud. When you know what you're talking about, post. You're the only one complaining here, I was only asking how you would cope with it.
 

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Mm i dont have the disease so i dont know how to culp with it.. but u need some confidence man. U need to become a JErk who thinks he is better then everyone else and who think he is the hottest guy alive.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Maybe that one teacher was right, maybe I do have something called 'autism'. If that was true, that would explain my life being such a damn social failure, never having any friends, not having any friends, not being as open as other people, that might explain this block that I always feel in my brain, maybe that explains my bad vision, maybe that explains why I JUST CAN'T trust people, if this is true, then it by all means, sucks because of this, I will never be able to lead a good social life. And I want to know, first of all, do you think from the things that I listed, that I really do have it? Secondly, if you knew you were born with this sucky ass disease, how would you cope with it?
Autistic men can get women if they apply them selves.
 

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Well, first step is to boost your confidence. As Happy people make others happy which makes them like you. Learn how to smile often even when you are in a very bad mood. Or listen to a cheerful piece of music and smile while you listen to it.

Another was is to write a list of things like

I'm amazing
I look great
I'm the best at basketball (or whatever)

etc. and repeat the list to yourself everyday before you go to sleep.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Autistism..
isn't that like a form of mental-retardation?
or am i completely off her?
i dunno.
 

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If autism is mental retardation than you obviously don't have it or else you wouldn't have been able to type up that post and not make a single spelling error. What you do have is a lack of self-confidence, which you can improve through exercising, socializing more (if you don't know how, then quit *****ing and learn), read some books and look into the subject of psychology for confidence improving exercises like meditation. Good luck.
 

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Originally posted by sjchris
If autism is mental retardation than you obviously don't have it or else you wouldn't have been able to type up that post and not make a single spelling error. What you do have is a lack of self-confidence, which you can improve through exercising, socializing more (if you don't know how, then quit *****ing and learn), read some books and look into the subject of psychology for confidence improving exercises like meditation. Good luck.
Yes, you're correct but there is such a thing as having slight, autism.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
You know, what, I think your the troll here, you don't even read the post for crying out loud. When you know what you're talking about, post. You're the only one complaining here, I was only asking how you would cope with it.
Youre a coward. You cant admit that youre a loser so you assume you have autism. Go talk to your parents about it if it worries you so much. Disgraceful.:down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you're not autistic, you're probably just a boring nerd. just work on improving your convo skills and humor. besides, i remember you saying you're fat so try working out. i bet you're ugly too, get a cool haircut and a sense of style. i'm no dj but i was in the same place as you and i went from being shy, nerdy and quiet to having a lot more friends and knowing a lot more girls. and if you really are autistic why would you come onto this forum and whine about it, go get some help
 

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
you're not autistic, you're probably just a boring nerd. just work on improving your convo skills and humor. besides, i remember you saying you're fat so try working out. i bet you're ugly too, get a cool haircut and a sense of style. i'm no dj but i was in the same place as you and i went from being shy, nerdy and quiet to having a lot more friends and knowing a lot more girls. and if you really are autistic why would you come onto this forum and whine about it, go get some help
Using logic doesn't appeal to him, as it seems.:crackup:
 

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Stop being a$$es. Why in heck would u kick someone when they r down and how do any of you "experts" know if he has autism or not.

My advice is my brother has something very similar to autism and socializing doesnt come easy for him but he makes it up by going out 10 times more than I do so dont let whatever you have (if you do have something) hold you down
 

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Originally posted by originaldj
Stop being a$$es. Why in heck would u kick someone when they r down and how do any of you "experts" know if he has autism or not.

My advice is my brother has something very similar to autism and socializing doesnt come easy for him but he makes it up by going out 10 times more than I do so dont let whatever you have (if you do have something) hold you down
Read his other stuff. Believe me, we've tried to help him. He never seems to take the advice. And then to top it off, he makes posts like this.

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Autism-A psychiatric disorder of childhood characterized by marked deficits in communication and social interaction, preoccupation with fantasy, language impairment, and abnormal behavior, such as repetitive acts and excessive attachment to certain objects. It is usually associated with intellectual impairment.



.......No....he doesn't have this.

Do you know what he actually suffers from.....the lack of iniative.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Maybe that one teacher was right, maybe I do have something called 'autism'. If that was true, that would explain my life being such a damn social failure, never having any friends, not having any friends, not being as open as other people, that might explain this block that I always feel in my brain, maybe that explains my bad vision, maybe that explains why I JUST CAN'T trust people, if this is true, then it by all means, sucks because of this, I will never be able to lead a good social life. And I want to know, first of all, do you think from the things that I listed, that I really do have it? Secondly, if you knew you were born with this sucky ass disease, how would you cope with it?
I have mild autism, and I have plenty of friends, a social life, a smoking hot amazing girlfriend, I am open when the time calls for it, and have 20/10 vision. Your autism isn't holding you back. It's your lack of confidence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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