Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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toasttopper1879

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Today at work a girl had lost her pen so I offered her mine,sarcastically wrote her name on it and said she could keep it.
She went all happy told me I was so sweet and she could kiss me.
Last thing anyone wants to be called is sweet I think cos its a journey to the friends zone territory.So I must remember to think before I act.
I maybe saved face with the answer of"no kissing infront of the other staff,I'll see yer in the cupboards in 5 mins".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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flyinshark

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I dunno if being called sweet means an automatic trip to the friends zone.

A girl called me sweety today at work...what does THAT mean?

Let's discuss (a la PvssyEater) :)
 

Caveman

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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
Today at work a girl had lost her pen so I offered her mine,sarcastically wrote her name on it and said she could keep it.
She went all happy told me I was so sweet and she could kiss me.
Last thing anyone wants to be called is sweet I think cos its a journey to the friends zone territory.So I must remember to think before I act.
I maybe saved face with the answer of"no kissing infront of the other staff,I'll see yer in the cupboards in 5 mins".
Nothing wrong with this situation. You had a very good comeback. I find that being 'sweet' in combination with a little bit of C&F works wonders. Stop worrying about being sweet if you are able to come back the way you did in this case.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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