"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sickly sweet

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toasttopper1879

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Today at work a girl had lost her pen so I offered her mine,sarcastically wrote her name on it and said she could keep it.
She went all happy told me I was so sweet and she could kiss me.
Last thing anyone wants to be called is sweet I think cos its a journey to the friends zone territory.So I must remember to think before I act.
I maybe saved face with the answer of"no kissing infront of the other staff,I'll see yer in the cupboards in 5 mins".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flyinshark

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I dunno if being called sweet means an automatic trip to the friends zone.

A girl called me sweety today at work...what does THAT mean?

Let's discuss (a la PvssyEater) :)
 
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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
Today at work a girl had lost her pen so I offered her mine,sarcastically wrote her name on it and said she could keep it.
She went all happy told me I was so sweet and she could kiss me.
Last thing anyone wants to be called is sweet I think cos its a journey to the friends zone territory.So I must remember to think before I act.
I maybe saved face with the answer of"no kissing infront of the other staff,I'll see yer in the cupboards in 5 mins".
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Nothing wrong with this situation. You had a very good comeback. I find that being 'sweet' in combination with a little bit of C&F works wonders. Stop worrying about being sweet if you are able to come back the way you did in this case.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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