"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just sent a text to a girl who is newly divorced asking why she isn’t on the dating apps yet, and she replied:

“because there are too many guys like you swiping on there lol”.

For reference, she set me up with her significantly younger sister 3 years ago, and was a little upset with me after I broke that off with her. She was married at the time. We have stayed “friends” since then, but have flirted a little.

Just busting my brain trying to think of a good response - even if she is genuinely not interested in me, I’d like to respond like a G.

Any suggestions on how to reply, gentlemen? I was in a relationship for the last year so my text game is a little rusty!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HaleyBaron said:
She clearly doesn't consider you important. Don't even respond.
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She texts me almost every day.
Besides, I learned a long time ago not to take advice from a woman - especially one who spends time in men’s dating forums. Go post in Cosmo
 
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”Then you should swipe right as I only show my dyck in person“
Escalate as she’s ripe for riding something new.
Why keep swimming in the friend-zone?
 
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bacchus said:
She texts me almost every day.
Besides, I learned a long time ago not to take advice from a woman - especially one who spends time in men’s dating forums. Go post in Cosmo
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Go f*ck yourself then. You're clearly not getting any from her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're a trip. I gave you advice and your retort was to try to slam on me. You ain't nothing.
 
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Reaching out to members to give you examples of how to reply to a girl that clearly thinks low of you is not a good use of our time or yours or this forum. What you should be seeking is perspective and mindset advice.

And with that, she clearly does not respect you so why invest your valuable time replying? Continuing to engage with her is only proving her point.

The problem might be with how valuable you consider your own time. It doesn't sound like you value it as you should.

Move on. I would ignore and cut contact.


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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