"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shyness can be overcome?

rrrrr

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I post this here because I'm one of probably many here that battle shyness:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/20178762/

Shyness is probably the #1 thing that can hold you down in life. It's held me down and it still does. But as I get older I overcome my shyness and push myself. So I think as you get older you'll overcome it, but if you make a concentrated effort to do so, you will overcome shyness quicker.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alphamale1821

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You can overcome your shyness right now. Putting a time restraint on yourself is self limiting. However as long as you are slowly making progress that's what counts. I simply made my change of a goofy guy to a alpha in the matters of hours reading about self confidence. I woke up a different person, voice tone was deeper, alpha walk, body language the whole deal. It is possible but you have to have the right tools an open mind and the most important BELIEVE that you can do it.
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
You can overcome your shyness right now. Putting a time restraint on yourself is self limiting. However as long as you are slowly making progress that's what counts. I simply made my change of a goofy guy to a alpha in the matters of hours reading about self confidence. I woke up a different person, voice tone was deeper, alpha walk, body language the whole deal. It is possible but you have to have the right tools an open mind and the most important BELIEVE that you can do it.
Shyness is a deeply-rooted personality trait. You don't lose your shyness overnight- literally- by reading a few articles on self-confidence.
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
You can overcome your shyness right now. Putting a time restraint on yourself is self limiting. However as long as you are slowly making progress that's what counts. I simply made my change of a goofy guy to a alpha in the matters of hours reading about self confidence. I woke up a different person, voice tone was deeper, alpha walk, body language the whole deal. It is possible but you have to have the right tools an open mind and the most important BELIEVE that you can do it.
What you have written here dude is right, every night I affirm in my mind that (1) I speak in a confident powerful and deep tone of voice (2) All of the hottest babes are attracted to me like a magnet and desperately desire to be with me (3) I approach every hot babe that I want to meet, the changes happened immediately. :up:
 

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Yeah, it can be overcome. In like 8th grade when I moved to my new school I was like one of the shyest kids there. Now my senior year is starting and I'm much less shy. Not to say that I'm completely unshy, but I'm a lot better than I used to be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Shyness is hard to overcome, but not impossible. It takes interactions with people. Get a customer support job and watch it disappear quick, but it might be replaced with loathing...

IF you haven’t done it yet print out the DJ Boot Camp and honestly do it. Keep a Journal on here. Label it your boot camp. I was and still am shy at times and the DJ Boot Camp helped me. Also I have to deal with tons of people now and it helps a lot.

We are all shy at times but it, like fear, should never control your actions.

One thing that I tell my self if I get a bit shy are scared is: "you’re only going to live once."

Look in the DJ Bible and Tips section and try them. You don't have to always copy other people but try it until you don't need it anymore.

It will come.
 
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