"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MacAvoy

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I have a problem. I recently moved back to my home town (small town where everyone knows everyone) and I have several problems there. The first being, I've already gone through most of the available decent single women (ok some of the not so decent ones as well), second problem being, there are the same girls still available, same ole toys that are always there, but I'm bored of them.

But my real problem is, I have come across a girl or two that have some potential (ie more than just a fuvk buddy, ltr material) however, because of their upbringing/background, they are very shy. In general it is very hard to get a girl into bed without getting them drunk in my home town. I have no problems going out on dates and seeing women. However I don't want to waste a few nights of my life getting drunk with this women to move the relationship forward.

Any suggestions, in the past I've tried offering dates, but they got too shy when I called them cuz it was too much like a date and not a night out on the town.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe they know you like to have f**k buddies and already 'gone through' most single women there and don't want to get involved with you. Being that you're from a small town where everybody knows everybody.
 

MacAvoy

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They all know who I am and what I have done. That isn't what is scaring them off, it is their own inhibitions.

Any other ideas?
 
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