"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MacAvoy

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I have a problem. I recently moved back to my home town (small town where everyone knows everyone) and I have several problems there. The first being, I've already gone through most of the available decent single women (ok some of the not so decent ones as well), second problem being, there are the same girls still available, same ole toys that are always there, but I'm bored of them.

But my real problem is, I have come across a girl or two that have some potential (ie more than just a fuvk buddy, ltr material) however, because of their upbringing/background, they are very shy. In general it is very hard to get a girl into bed without getting them drunk in my home town. I have no problems going out on dates and seeing women. However I don't want to waste a few nights of my life getting drunk with this women to move the relationship forward.

Any suggestions, in the past I've tried offering dates, but they got too shy when I called them cuz it was too much like a date and not a night out on the town.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maybe they know you like to have f**k buddies and already 'gone through' most single women there and don't want to get involved with you. Being that you're from a small town where everybody knows everybody.
 

MacAvoy

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They all know who I am and what I have done. That isn't what is scaring them off, it is their own inhibitions.

Any other ideas?
 
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