Being_the_Don
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How can you tell if a woman is shy or just not interested?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shy versus Not Interested
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
the way to tell this is to look at her actions.Being_the_Don said:
example, in convo, a shy girl might not talk much, but u still connect alittle and she puts in some work.
an uninterested girl wouldnt even give u the chance to talk to her.
make a move on a shy girl, and she wont likely resist if she likes you, and if she does, she'll do it playfully, makin u resist
an uninterested girl will make a painfully clear that she doesnt want u touching her.
u have to read her actions to determine if she is really interested or not. if she makes conscious efforts to avoid u, than she is not interested. if she atleast give u the time of day, then there is atleast some interest there.
this are not absolutes, but they are general ideas that apply to most
Being_the_Don
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I know, it is hard to tell sometimes. We use eye contact as the first way (at least I do and I'm sure most of you guys do, too) to show a woman that we're interested. But women don't always make eye contact. Depending on her persoanlity or even social upbringing she may avoid eye contact altogether. So then you have to look for other things like the hair toss. That usually works for me. If a woman gives the hair toss when she walks by me I'll say hi. If she's interested she'll say hi back. But even that some women are too shy to really talk. So what are some ways you can tell if she's shy or not? Or another way to put it: if she's shy how to build her up in those first few minutes you know?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TruthHurts
Don Juan
here it is...........
YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY ASKED and saved yourself the energy..
try this
"I seen you looking at me and smilling, is it because we have something going on between us or is it just wishfull thinking" doesnt matter what she says (unless obvious rejection, most of the time, even if they want to reject you, they wont know how to, so you still proceed "How about dinner or a drink, let me get your number and I will call you" if she still dont know how to reject you she will give it to you, and when you call you want be successfull at setting up a date...
by the way, one time.. i finally landed a date with a 10+ model like 5 or 6 months later after the fact.. i.e. timming sometimes is key, had to get her between boyfriends
(banged her on second date... wasnt suave enough to do it on first)
if she asked guy before, it means she would do it to you if she also like you enough, in this case she doesnt, or she thinks your man enough to do it yourself.. either way... youve wasted too much time...Mjazz said:
YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY ASKED and saved yourself the energy..
try this
"I seen you looking at me and smilling, is it because we have something going on between us or is it just wishfull thinking" doesnt matter what she says (unless obvious rejection, most of the time, even if they want to reject you, they wont know how to, so you still proceed "How about dinner or a drink, let me get your number and I will call you" if she still dont know how to reject you she will give it to you, and when you call you want be successfull at setting up a date...
by the way, one time.. i finally landed a date with a 10+ model like 5 or 6 months later after the fact.. i.e. timming sometimes is key, had to get her between boyfriends
(banged her on second date... wasnt suave enough to do it on first)