Being_the_Don
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How can you tell if a woman is shy or just not interested?
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Shy versus Not Interested
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
the way to tell this is to look at her actions.Being_the_Don said:
example, in convo, a shy girl might not talk much, but u still connect alittle and she puts in some work.
an uninterested girl wouldnt even give u the chance to talk to her.
make a move on a shy girl, and she wont likely resist if she likes you, and if she does, she'll do it playfully, makin u resist
an uninterested girl will make a painfully clear that she doesnt want u touching her.
u have to read her actions to determine if she is really interested or not. if she makes conscious efforts to avoid u, than she is not interested. if she atleast give u the time of day, then there is atleast some interest there.
this are not absolutes, but they are general ideas that apply to most
Being_the_Don
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I know, it is hard to tell sometimes. We use eye contact as the first way (at least I do and I'm sure most of you guys do, too) to show a woman that we're interested. But women don't always make eye contact. Depending on her persoanlity or even social upbringing she may avoid eye contact altogether. So then you have to look for other things like the hair toss. That usually works for me. If a woman gives the hair toss when she walks by me I'll say hi. If she's interested she'll say hi back. But even that some women are too shy to really talk. So what are some ways you can tell if she's shy or not? Or another way to put it: if she's shy how to build her up in those first few minutes you know?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TruthHurts
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here it is...........
YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY ASKED and saved yourself the energy..
try this
"I seen you looking at me and smilling, is it because we have something going on between us or is it just wishfull thinking" doesnt matter what she says (unless obvious rejection, most of the time, even if they want to reject you, they wont know how to, so you still proceed "How about dinner or a drink, let me get your number and I will call you" if she still dont know how to reject you she will give it to you, and when you call you want be successfull at setting up a date...
by the way, one time.. i finally landed a date with a 10+ model like 5 or 6 months later after the fact.. i.e. timming sometimes is key, had to get her between boyfriends
(banged her on second date... wasnt suave enough to do it on first)
if she asked guy before, it means she would do it to you if she also like you enough, in this case she doesnt, or she thinks your man enough to do it yourself.. either way... youve wasted too much time...Mjazz said:
YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY ASKED and saved yourself the energy..
try this
"I seen you looking at me and smilling, is it because we have something going on between us or is it just wishfull thinking" doesnt matter what she says (unless obvious rejection, most of the time, even if they want to reject you, they wont know how to, so you still proceed "How about dinner or a drink, let me get your number and I will call you" if she still dont know how to reject you she will give it to you, and when you call you want be successfull at setting up a date...
by the way, one time.. i finally landed a date with a 10+ model like 5 or 6 months later after the fact.. i.e. timming sometimes is key, had to get her between boyfriends
(banged her on second date... wasnt suave enough to do it on first)