"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok I just want to make this clear: Is it ok to tell a girl she's pretty? Cuz one guy told this girl i like thats she's pretty in French and he isnt French.

Also, What are some creative ways to get a girl's number (this isnt very easy, I'm in a very anti-DJ environment.) I want to get her number, but I want to isolate her from her friends nicely, smoothly, but not sounding like a jerk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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read the bible

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Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
 
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Alkali said:
Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
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flattery is BAD! Compliments are golden in my book.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's the difference?
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flattery is you trying to get something.

compliments is sincere without the want of anything being returned other than a smile and making a girl feel good. Plus it is not overdone.

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I see, I grouped flattery with compliments and "flattery" as the type with an ulterior motive.

But I'm going to disagree with you there, overdoing it a little can be funny and charming.

So long that you make it obvious and not completely, 100% serious.
 
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read the bible, become a don juan and dont worry about coming across as a jerk, you wont a jerks reputation comes with messing a lot of girls around;)
 
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