"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok I just want to make this clear: Is it ok to tell a girl she's pretty? Cuz one guy told this girl i like thats she's pretty in French and he isnt French.

Also, What are some creative ways to get a girl's number (this isnt very easy, I'm in a very anti-DJ environment.) I want to get her number, but I want to isolate her from her friends nicely, smoothly, but not sounding like a jerk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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read the bible

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Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
 
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Alkali said:
Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
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flattery is BAD! Compliments are golden in my book.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's the difference?
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flattery is you trying to get something.

compliments is sincere without the want of anything being returned other than a smile and making a girl feel good. Plus it is not overdone.

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I see, I grouped flattery with compliments and "flattery" as the type with an ulterior motive.

But I'm going to disagree with you there, overdoing it a little can be funny and charming.

So long that you make it obvious and not completely, 100% serious.
 
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read the bible, become a don juan and dont worry about coming across as a jerk, you wont a jerks reputation comes with messing a lot of girls around;)
 
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