"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok I just want to make this clear: Is it ok to tell a girl she's pretty? Cuz one guy told this girl i like thats she's pretty in French and he isnt French.

Also, What are some creative ways to get a girl's number (this isnt very easy, I'm in a very anti-DJ environment.) I want to get her number, but I want to isolate her from her friends nicely, smoothly, but not sounding like a jerk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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read the bible

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Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
 
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Alkali said:
Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
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flattery is BAD! Compliments are golden in my book.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's the difference?
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flattery is you trying to get something.

compliments is sincere without the want of anything being returned other than a smile and making a girl feel good. Plus it is not overdone.

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I see, I grouped flattery with compliments and "flattery" as the type with an ulterior motive.

But I'm going to disagree with you there, overdoing it a little can be funny and charming.

So long that you make it obvious and not completely, 100% serious.
 
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read the bible, become a don juan and dont worry about coming across as a jerk, you wont a jerks reputation comes with messing a lot of girls around;)
 
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