"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok I just want to make this clear: Is it ok to tell a girl she's pretty? Cuz one guy told this girl i like thats she's pretty in French and he isnt French.

Also, What are some creative ways to get a girl's number (this isnt very easy, I'm in a very anti-DJ environment.) I want to get her number, but I want to isolate her from her friends nicely, smoothly, but not sounding like a jerk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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read the bible

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Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
 
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Alkali said:
Some will say no, but flattery is my best friend.

Do it with a smile and a playful glint for it to be gold.

She sould pick up that it's not flattery but "flattery."
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flattery is BAD! Compliments are golden in my book.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's the difference?
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flattery is you trying to get something.

compliments is sincere without the want of anything being returned other than a smile and making a girl feel good. Plus it is not overdone.

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I see, I grouped flattery with compliments and "flattery" as the type with an ulterior motive.

But I'm going to disagree with you there, overdoing it a little can be funny and charming.

So long that you make it obvious and not completely, 100% serious.
 
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read the bible, become a don juan and dont worry about coming across as a jerk, you wont a jerks reputation comes with messing a lot of girls around;)
 
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