"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shut up about looks NOW

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I am sick of it.....listen here is the deal.

Unless you plan on getting plastic surgery...keep reading.


you cant change how your face looks...not really.

but you can better your appearence.

1. grooming
2. body
3. clothing


next thing INNER GAME....SERIOUSLY ANY ONE WHO COMES HERE AND WHINES ABOUT LOOKS HAS A WEAK INNER GAME.

If you havent seen my pic..I am telling you im about a 7.

yea a 7..I really have no way to get much higher...I can prolly get to a 7.5 if im lucky.

thats life..I have to shave my hair low..because its thin for me being 22, I am 5 foot 7...by the way whoever said hieght matters is a ****ing moron.

I can bag 10's...because my inner game and outer is inline.

you guys need to listen to Royal elite, mac diddy and a few others..where the **** is player supreme..we need him back here bad.

instead of coming here to whine about how ur a loser..shut the **** up..clean ur **** up...and start Sarging!

ok rant over
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I am sick of it.....listen here is the deal.

Unless you plan on getting plastic surgery...keep reading.


you cant change how your face looks...not really.

but you can better your appearence.

1. grooming
2. body
3. clothing


next thing INNER GAME....SERIOUSLY ANY ONE WHO COMES HERE AND WHINES ABOUT LOOKS HAS A WEAK INNER GAME.

If you havent seen my pic..I am telling you im about a 7.

yea a 7..I really have no way to get much higher...I can prolly get to a 7.5 if im lucky.

thats life..I have to shave my hair low..because its thin for me being 22, I am 5 foot 7...by the way whoever said hieght matters is a ****ing moron.

I can bag 10's...because my inner game and outer is inline.

you guys need to listen to Royal elite, mac diddy and a few others..where the **** is player supreme..we need him back here bad.

instead of coming here to whine about how ur a loser..shut the **** up..clean ur **** up...and start Sarging!

ok rant over
A man after my own heart-bravo bravo.

If you arent playing to win dont play at all. People complain that it is hot in the summer, but it's still hot in the summer. Change what you can, and then work with what you have.
Losers complain while winners win!!!
 

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haha, alright...im not bad looking...but believe me..im no pretty boy either....


but either way....the INNER GAME goes a long way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have never had a problem with my looks, and i dont plan to for a LOOONG time to come...


Laterz...;)
 

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When you reach 21, you'll look different. DEAL WITH THAT.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
When you reach 21, you'll look different. DEAL WITH THAT.
noooooooooooo

it's a shame my friends choose to believe all girls want are looks, they dont have the looks. and unfortunately they're letting that belief influence their game with women.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
When you reach 21, you'll look different. DEAL WITH THAT.
well, actually you'll look better... until you hit your 30s... then ur done:D
 

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tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock......

Originally posted by Jay-X
well, actually you'll look better... until you hit your 30s... then ur done:D
I need to start building myself a time machine! arg! as sweet as life is, its just too f*cking short!:mad: oh well... we better make the best of it... while it still lasts:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I look like Brad Pitt during Fight Club.
 

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Prove it...

Originally posted by alphawolfx
I look like Brad Pitt during Fight Club.
Got a pic?:rolleyes:
 

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Im glad you want to look like someone else. I look like myself, Ryan. AND IM HAPPY THE WAY I LOOK. Im so hot right now anyway.
 

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Haha and you want me to believe that picture? Do yourself a favour and kick yourself and then get off the forums with your bull****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kewl kewl...

Originally posted by alphawolfx
Yep. I'm Brad Pitt. Jennifer Aniston dumped me, so I came here to learn how to pick up women. Everything I've said has been a lie. PLEASE HELP!!!

Damn Don Joffe, you are touchy. You need a sense of humor.

Anyways, here's what I really look like:
With the ex, 2004.
Looking thuggish on my way to New York, 2004.
With my old Wolvering haircut, 2003.
Looking stoned (but not) after a night of dancing... and I look like I'm pregnant, too.
Kewl pics... i think the 1st one ( your ex 2004) is the nicest one... u must do your hair like that more often. lol...


Laterz...
 

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I got a sense of humour, I just dont have the time for games. I got patience for girls but not for you. I and You are here to learn not to mess about.
TEL ME..
what would you rate yourself out of 10?
 

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Aequitas: Actually that's how I keep my hair most of the time. And I KNEW Spider-Man was an AFC, look at you, you have one-itis for MJ. What a loser you are, Spidey.

Don Joffe: That's okay, I have enough patience for the both of us, and I like to play games. As far as rating myself, well that goes against this thread, doesn't it? I range anywhere from a 1-8, depending on my mood, face, attitude (yes this influences my looks), and hair. But I'd say most of the time I'd consider myself an 8. Probably when I gain some weight I will look like a 9. I have no idea what a 9 or 10 guy looks like, though.

What do the girls think? Well, I don't know, don't care. As long as I think I'm hot, they will too. Even when I know I'm looking bad, I get opened.

As a side note: In January I looked the exact same way and felt I was ugly. So I don't want any future DJ on the board to attribute any progress I've made to my looks. It's my confidence and knowledge and personality that got me progress, nothing else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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