"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shut up about looks NOW

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I am sick of it.....listen here is the deal.

Unless you plan on getting plastic surgery...keep reading.


you cant change how your face looks...not really.

but you can better your appearence.

1. grooming
2. body
3. clothing


next thing INNER GAME....SERIOUSLY ANY ONE WHO COMES HERE AND WHINES ABOUT LOOKS HAS A WEAK INNER GAME.

If you havent seen my pic..I am telling you im about a 7.

yea a 7..I really have no way to get much higher...I can prolly get to a 7.5 if im lucky.

thats life..I have to shave my hair low..because its thin for me being 22, I am 5 foot 7...by the way whoever said hieght matters is a ****ing moron.

I can bag 10's...because my inner game and outer is inline.

you guys need to listen to Royal elite, mac diddy and a few others..where the **** is player supreme..we need him back here bad.

instead of coming here to whine about how ur a loser..shut the **** up..clean ur **** up...and start Sarging!

ok rant over
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I am sick of it.....listen here is the deal.

Unless you plan on getting plastic surgery...keep reading.


you cant change how your face looks...not really.

but you can better your appearence.

1. grooming
2. body
3. clothing


next thing INNER GAME....SERIOUSLY ANY ONE WHO COMES HERE AND WHINES ABOUT LOOKS HAS A WEAK INNER GAME.

If you havent seen my pic..I am telling you im about a 7.

yea a 7..I really have no way to get much higher...I can prolly get to a 7.5 if im lucky.

thats life..I have to shave my hair low..because its thin for me being 22, I am 5 foot 7...by the way whoever said hieght matters is a ****ing moron.

I can bag 10's...because my inner game and outer is inline.

you guys need to listen to Royal elite, mac diddy and a few others..where the **** is player supreme..we need him back here bad.

instead of coming here to whine about how ur a loser..shut the **** up..clean ur **** up...and start Sarging!

ok rant over
A man after my own heart-bravo bravo.

If you arent playing to win dont play at all. People complain that it is hot in the summer, but it's still hot in the summer. Change what you can, and then work with what you have.
Losers complain while winners win!!!
 

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haha, alright...im not bad looking...but believe me..im no pretty boy either....


but either way....the INNER GAME goes a long way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have never had a problem with my looks, and i dont plan to for a LOOONG time to come...


Laterz...;)
 

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When you reach 21, you'll look different. DEAL WITH THAT.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
When you reach 21, you'll look different. DEAL WITH THAT.
noooooooooooo

it's a shame my friends choose to believe all girls want are looks, they dont have the looks. and unfortunately they're letting that belief influence their game with women.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
When you reach 21, you'll look different. DEAL WITH THAT.
well, actually you'll look better... until you hit your 30s... then ur done:D
 

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tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock......

Originally posted by Jay-X
well, actually you'll look better... until you hit your 30s... then ur done:D
I need to start building myself a time machine! arg! as sweet as life is, its just too f*cking short!:mad: oh well... we better make the best of it... while it still lasts:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I look like Brad Pitt during Fight Club.
 

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Prove it...

Originally posted by alphawolfx
I look like Brad Pitt during Fight Club.
Got a pic?:rolleyes:
 

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Im glad you want to look like someone else. I look like myself, Ryan. AND IM HAPPY THE WAY I LOOK. Im so hot right now anyway.
 

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Haha and you want me to believe that picture? Do yourself a favour and kick yourself and then get off the forums with your bull****.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kewl kewl...

Originally posted by alphawolfx
Yep. I'm Brad Pitt. Jennifer Aniston dumped me, so I came here to learn how to pick up women. Everything I've said has been a lie. PLEASE HELP!!!

Damn Don Joffe, you are touchy. You need a sense of humor.

Anyways, here's what I really look like:
With the ex, 2004.
Looking thuggish on my way to New York, 2004.
With my old Wolvering haircut, 2003.
Looking stoned (but not) after a night of dancing... and I look like I'm pregnant, too.
Kewl pics... i think the 1st one ( your ex 2004) is the nicest one... u must do your hair like that more often. lol...


Laterz...
 

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I got a sense of humour, I just dont have the time for games. I got patience for girls but not for you. I and You are here to learn not to mess about.
TEL ME..
what would you rate yourself out of 10?
 

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Aequitas: Actually that's how I keep my hair most of the time. And I KNEW Spider-Man was an AFC, look at you, you have one-itis for MJ. What a loser you are, Spidey.

Don Joffe: That's okay, I have enough patience for the both of us, and I like to play games. As far as rating myself, well that goes against this thread, doesn't it? I range anywhere from a 1-8, depending on my mood, face, attitude (yes this influences my looks), and hair. But I'd say most of the time I'd consider myself an 8. Probably when I gain some weight I will look like a 9. I have no idea what a 9 or 10 guy looks like, though.

What do the girls think? Well, I don't know, don't care. As long as I think I'm hot, they will too. Even when I know I'm looking bad, I get opened.

As a side note: In January I looked the exact same way and felt I was ugly. So I don't want any future DJ on the board to attribute any progress I've made to my looks. It's my confidence and knowledge and personality that got me progress, nothing else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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