Showing your intentions...how?

[LittleBigOne]

Often i read on this forum that man have to show their intentions when they like a girl. I am not talking here about the cold approaches in a club but more with girls you meet during daily situations like work or sport and probarly know for a little while. My question is, how do you show these intentions without looking needy / desperate. Will showing your intentions increase attraction with a certain girl when you show these intentions?

Looking forward to see your responses about this one.

 

[ARrocket]

You make your intention known by asking her out, of course!

 

[muscleman]

^ Yea, pretty simple. Ask her out for drinks (if possible). If yes, she's interested. If no, she's not so let it go. Pretty simple and there's nothing needy about it.

 

[Fly By Night]

Okay, while those answers above are correct, those are the clearly obvious forms of showing your intentions. If you walk up to random women and ask to go out for drinks, your success rate will be much lower than 10%, even though you are being very straight forward.

Using more subtle things during a convo will show your interest. Things like kino, locking eyes with her, and closing proximity with her will convey that you are interested in her for more than platonic conversation. Asking to go out together should be the conclusion after you see she realizes and reciprocates those signs back to you, not blindly asking for her number without knowing if she actually likes you. Doing this properly will get you numbers that will not flake.

 

[VladPatton]

Build a little bit of comfort first if you know her in your social circle. And I don't mean for 6 months with text messages! Build it in person only, but do exchange numbers. Keep texting at a minimum. Use it mostly to set up dates.

You then proceed to ask her for drinks in a very matter-of-fact kind of way. Just like you would your long time friend. If she refuses or comes up with a bųllṣhit excuse just shake it off. Proceed to just be playful. Wait some time, then ask again. Two bųllṣhit excuses = not interested. You then let her go and move on. Only way to do it, there is no magic bullet or shortcuts.

Good luck, and always play it cool.